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John’s office door was wide open when I arrived on the Tuesday after spring break in March of 2012. It was half past twelve, thirty minutes until the beginning of the most popular course on campus, “Theory of Coaching Football.” I stepped in to find him staring at one of the three computer monitors in front of him. Right away, I could tell that he had much more energy than usual.

“So, is it okay if I sit in on class?” I inquired.

“Sure. As long as you can find a seat,” he replied. And he wasn’t joking: the room would be packed. At a school that boasts a student-faculty ratio of twelve to one, John’s class would be filled with sixty-three students, including me, with dozens more turned away. Perhaps it’s because of this course that the college advertises a median instead of an average class size.

I made the short walk down the hallway to Palaestra classroom 256. A handful of early arriving students were already seated and passing the time by fiddling with their smart-phones. I selected a spot in the front row on the far side of the classroom, good enough to see but well out of the way.

As was custom, students sought out their friends as they entered the room. Danny and Elissa, students who had taken courses from me, sat in the seats to my left. I appreciated that, as I felt a little out of place in the classroom and wasn’t sure how the students would feel about being joined by an older guy.

About ten minutes before one, John entered the room, wearing slacks, dress shoes, and a Saint John’s University shirt. This ensemble was more or less his uniform, with the only day-to-day variation being which color and style of shirt he would choose. This day it was white and long-sleeved, and the Saint John’s emblem was red.

For a few minutes, John sat on the wooden table at the front of the room, a table that had been handcrafted by one of the campus’s many monks. John smiled at the youthful energy that sat in front of him. He kicked his legs back and forth, about as quickly as I had ever seen them move.

At five minutes before one, with the room now full, John stood and simply lifted his hands into the air. He was used to relying on hand motions to get the attention of boisterous eighteen- to twenty-two-year-olds, as his voice was soft and he hadn’t used a whistle on the football field in several decades.

Students who noticed his gesture fell silent; the others quickly followed suit. And with that, the tone was set. He had wordlessly communicated one of his favorite phrases: “Early is on time, and on time is late.”

“Just a minute,” he began. “The first rule here is that you can’t sit next to anyone you know already, and especially no guy next to guy nor gal next to gal. One goal in this class is to meet as many people as possible. And you better find out everything about the person sitting next to you.” Before turning the students loose, John looked down at Luke.

Luke was a senior defensive back on the football team who didn’t end up getting as much playing time as he had hoped. But he had been waiting to take this class from John for his entire college career. He was smart, polite, and handsome. Having served as his professor in four courses and as his advisor for four years, I enjoyed the opportunity to finally take a class with Luke.

John pointed to the woman on Luke’s left and inquired, “What’s her name?”

“Kristin,” came Luke’s reply.

“Where is she from?”

“I don’t know.”

“You better find out. And get her phone number.” The students laughed as they rearranged themselves and began to interview their new neighbors.

Professor Gagliardi in action. Courtesy of Gagliardi family.

After a few minutes of loud classroom chatter, during which John slowly paced at the front of the room with a grin on his face, he called the class back together with another lift of his hands. He strolled over toward my side of the room, stopping every few feet to pepper another student with questions about his or her new friend. Finally, he walked over to me and asked, “Who are you?” Before I could answer, he looked at the class and continued, “I think this guy got a hold of some pot. Should we let him in here or not?” John’s question was met with a somewhat uncomfortable silence as the students didn’t really know how to reply.

“Okay, Boz, tell them why you’re here.” John had recently begun referring to me by my nickname, perhaps the only time he has done so with a current or former player.

“I’m taking a sabbatical to learn more about how John created such a powerful legacy, and I’m going to write a book about what I find so that others can learn to be more successful in their own lives.”

John looked a bit disgusted and then turned to the class. “And he is married, so don’t let him flirt with you. I am also married, but I am going to flirt.”

After the class finished laughing, John asked me, “Boz, twenty years ago, did you ever think you’d be back here as a professor?”

“No. I figured I’d be traveling the world as some big-shot business executive.”

“That’s right. No one in here knows what they will be doing twenty years from now.” He let that comment hang in the air, and I made a note to ask him about it later.

He then shifted to one of his favorite lessons. “When you introduce yourself to someone, say your name, shake hands with a nice grip, and look them in the eye.” He asked Brent, his star wide receiver, to stand and introduce himself to a woman across the aisle. After a brief introduction, Brent asked her, “So, what are you doing after college?” John corrected him and said that he should have instead asked what the nice young lady was doing after class.

Next, John asked Mark, another one of my students, to stand up and introduce his new friend to the class. Mark stood up, looked at John, and began the introduction. “Hi, I would like you to meet—”

“Don’t look at me,” John interjected, “look at her. She is better looking than I am.” The class laughed, and Mark was relieved when he could sit back down a minute later.

“Okay, I have a theory—if you stick around long enough, you get a lot of theories. Why do women smile more than guys?” John paused and the class sat quietly, not sure how to answer. “I think they wake up and think, Gosh, it’s good not to be a guy.” As the class chuckled, John looked at one of his players seated in the front row and said, “When is the last time you smiled, Wade? Last week?” Wade, a junior tight end, grinned and nodded his head, playing along gracefully.

John got just a tad serious for a moment. “There are a lot of people on the waiting list for this course, so you are not to miss any classes. It is too important, and there are many people who would like to take it. I will accept reasonable excuses, like a job interview for you seniors. Or a death—your own.” As the class laughed again, I smiled to myself. When I tell students I expect them to attend every class, the news is usually met with a bunch of blank stares. John laid down the law in a way that produced smiles in return. I made note to remember that for use in my own classroom.

John made the guys switch chairs, and the students introduced themselves to another new friend. From the front of the room, John took it all in, slowly walking back and forth, occasionally sitting on the table for a brief rest, but continually grinning at the communication he was witnessing. After a few minutes, he raised his hands, and the class went silent again. “The reason I am doing this is because for the rest of your life you have to somehow introduce yourself to people and make a good impression, especially in job interviews.”

“The key,” he continued, “is to be confident.”

As I looked around, I noticed students nodding along.

“How do you do that? Just be confident and tell yourself this is going to be the best interview the interviewer ever had.” I smiled when I heard this line—he used a variation of it frequently on the football field as well. But now that I heard it in his classroom, I realized it was one of his core beliefs.

“You,” John said, pointing at Jimmy, his burly and affable center, “come up here.” A few weeks earlier I had met Jimmy for the first time, and he had told me how excited he was to take John’s class.

John said to Jimmy, “Let’s see how you introduce yourself.”

Jimmy jumped up, and with a bit too much excitement and energy, he extended his hand and said, “Nice to meet you, John. I’ve heard a lot about you.” John shook his head in disgust and said, “I know my name! I want to know your name.” The class laughed at Jimmy’s expense, but he gave it a second try, and John affirmed him with a “Good job.”

John transitioned to his philosophy on football. “We tell our football team that we don’t have goals. Just do it, every day. I had that phrase long before Nike. Except I said it a little differently.”

His voice got kind of low. “I used to say, ‘Just do it, goddammit.’”

The class laughed as he continued. “As a coach, when evaluating players, you have to find a guy who knows what to do and then has the ability to get it done. And we only have one rule, the golden rule. Treat people how you would like to be treated, and that takes care of almost everything.”

When he said that, I thought about one of the first changes he made when he took over as coach of his high school football team back in 1943. Conventional coaching wisdom at the time was to not allow players to drink water during practice, as it would make them “weak.” In his first practice as a coach, John wanted a drink, so he got one. The other players watched to make sure he didn’t die, and then they got drinks themselves.

John told the class what their homework was. “One assignment for today is to compliment your mother on her cooking. That is important for two reasons. First, to be nice. But also because then she will keep feeding you.

“But that brings me to a critical problem in my life. When I first started dating the gal who became my wife, she wanted to impress me. She knew that I was an Italian guy, so she made me some spaghetti. I don’t think this Irish-German gal had ever made it before in her entire life. I think she used a can of tomato soup. And then she asked me how I liked it.

“Now, I could be nice and tell her it was really good, but then I will get it the rest of my life. So I had a problem.”

He solicited advice from the class, asking one of his defensive linemen, “What would you have done, Evan?”

“Um. I would probably tell her we should cook a meal together, and then I’d show her how to cook Italian.”

“But I don’t know how to cook Italian! I’m not smart like you. And you’ve got a beard,” John exclaimed as he pointed at Evan’s scruffy face. “And here I was, no beard and not very smart, but I kind of liked this gal and didn’t want to screw it up.

“Well, it was a tough choice. So I said ‘Peggy’”—John got quiet before continuing—“‘I appreciate this, but it isn’t too good.’ So Peggy went to my mother and learned how to make spaghetti better than her.” And with a grin he added, “At least that’s what I tell Peggy.”

As class was winding down, John called Luke up to see how many of the sixty-two other students he could name. Before Luke began, John inquired, “What is your grade point average?”

“3.85,” Luke replied.

Not to be outdone, John retorted, “Pretty good. But I had a 4.0 in college—one point each year. That’s a 4.0, right?”

Luke smiled in agreement and then went about his task, correctly identifying the first eleven students in class. When he finally got stumped and decided to skip a student, John corrected him. “Introduce yourself.”

Luke worked his way through the classroom and introduced himself to each student he didn’t know. He always said, “Nice to meet you,” upon learning someone’s name for the first time. He ended up knowing forty students by name and introducing himself to twenty-two new friends.

After encouraging the class to applaud for Luke, John noticed that it was after the class’s ending time of 2:10, and he said simply, “That’s it.” In no rush to go anywhere, I watched a class full of people walk out with big smiles on their faces, fairly certain I had never seen that before.

After the students cleared out, John and I walked down the hallway of the Palaestra and back to his office.

“So, how did you think the class went?” John inquired.

“Very well. I like the way you use humor and examples to make your points.”

John nodded, seemingly satisfied. I asked if he had any guest speakers coming up this year. “Maybe a couple,” he said, “but I hate to give up any time.”

That comment really struck me. Watching him smile during class made it clear that he absolutely loved teaching. And if he loved that class, he must have loved his football team even more.

“How did you like my story about not knowing what you might be doing twenty years from now?”

“I think it’s a fun attitude,” I told him. “Over spring break, we packed up the minivan and just started driving. We called it a no-destination road trip.”

“Yeah, we used to do those as well. I’d drive my wife crazy when we took vacations. I’d tell her that we didn’t need to book a hotel in advance, we’ll always find something. It especially drove her crazy when we would get to a crossroad and I’d ask her and the kids if we should turn left or if we should turn right.

“Once we were heading back from Virginia, and when we got to Arkansas, I called up school to see if anyone was missing me. The answer was no, so we drove out to my hometown in Colorado.”

As much as I was enjoying our conversation, I knew I had a long road ahead with John and didn’t want to wear out my welcome on day one. I abruptly stood and said, “Well, I better be going now. See you again in a couple days.”

When I got home that evening, my wife greeted me with a kiss and asked how my first day of class went.

“It was great. You should see the way he commands the class and the complete attention that the students give him. He was really on fire.”

“I’m so glad,” she replied.

I sank into my favorite recliner and began to catch up on e-mails from students. “Hi, Boz,” the first one began. I long ago decided that if John wouldn’t go by “Coach,” I certainly wouldn’t go by “Professor.”