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‘Making It Happen’

A Manifestor has one or more of the three motor centres – Heart, Emotions or Root – defined and connected to a defined Throat. But the Sacral is not defined.

You are one of life’s go – getters, born with an ability to make it all happen. People may well observe an air of invincibility about you because you are a catalyzing force who injects tremendous drive and focus into any project or endeavour – and into the people around you. The willpower of the Heart, the intense feelings of the Emotions and the adrenaline surge of the Root are enough, either in isolation or combined, to surge to the Throat to create a highly – motivated person capable of powerful expression and manifestation.

For a Throat connection to be relevant, the channels must be fully in colour, that is, they must be active channels. The Root’s active connection must find its path to the Throat via the Emotions or Spleen.

Manifestors account statistically for about 8 per cent of the world’s population, so first appreciate that you are rare with your relentless, compulsive, driving energy that constantly seeks to act, achieve and do. Your nature is to be a human dynamo, actively accomplishing goals. Such accomplishments, which you might take for granted, can attract either admiration or jealousy from non – Manifestors, mainly because a lot of people hanker for your manifesting ability! You may find it hard to understand why others have such difficulty getting things done, but not everyone can achieve things as quickly or effortlessly as you, so cut them some slack. You are the one type who can go it alone and succeed, needing no one and nothing but your own drive. Indeed, if I were to compare you to a car, you would be the Maserati. You get in your super – powered vehicle, turn the ignition and you’re off! It helps to realize that you are the key and ignition switch missing in others. Imagine how it must feel for a non – Manifestor turning that ignition switch and nothing happening. You may struggle to understand that feeling, especially if you are an employer, but this understanding alone can lead to a new co – operation that encourages others and enables them to utilize your input.

If you see a stressed – out parent with a child running them ragged, you’re probably witnessing a non – Manifestor parent struggling with a Manifestor child. You’ll recognize the Manifestor baby, too – as soon as they can crawl, they’re off here, there and everywhere. Just wait till they learn to walk! I’ve met many non – Manifestor parents whose children are Manifestors, and they are worn out trying to keep up with their hyper but capable offspring. All these children seek is the freedom to be constantly active; it stifles their nature to be restricted. What their parents must learn is to provide free rein within certain boundaries, such as: ‘You can stay up, but 8 p.m. is bedtime’ or ‘You can go outside to play, but the end of the street is the limit.’ It is the honouring of freedom within limits that strikes the balance here. Also, aim to provide activities and interests which keep their relentless energy engaged. Describe sensible boundaries and let them be!

If, on the other hand, you’re the Manifestor parent and your child is a non – Manifestor, you may wonder why they are not more like you. Like mother, like daughter, right? Wrong. It is not in their nature to be like you and you cannot train them to be equal powerhouses.

In relationships, a Manifestor can be hard to live with because of a constant need for action which leads to unpredictability and potential volatility. It can lead to an attitude of ‘Do it my way or take the highway.’ Don’t even think about trying to control a Manifestor. You might as well lock a lion in a tiny cage and await the roar. But appreciate the gift of an extremely capable partner who, granted freedom, will find a way through anything and be a consummate professional – and forever thank you for understanding them.

The key to understanding a Manifestor is to know they are born doers, eager to make things happen. Blocking them, asking them to stop or nagging them to spend more time relaxing is contrary to their nature. You’re far better off enhancing this temperament by celebrating them, appreciating their efforts and letting them go for it. They need to be active. For them, there is no bliss to be found in doing nothing. Be aware that if you attempt to quiet them, this can lead to friction or anger.

What I encourage Manifestors to do is to let people know their intentions rather than just rush off and do things. Don’t just disappear in a cloud of dust and expect everyone to accept it. ‘But why should I tell everyone what I’m doing all the time?’ I can almost hear you protest. Because, in my experience, I’ve found that Manifestors find immense freedom to be themselves and achieve what they want to achieve when they co – operate with the people around them.

Take the case of Caroline. She was travelling abroad with two friends in a country which was unfamiliar to them. They arrived late at the hotel and took separate rooms. The next morning Caroline went to pick up her Manifestor friend Sarah for breakfast, but she was nowhere to be found – she’d just upped and gone. One hour of worry later, there she was, panting through the lobby in her jogging outfit. She had needed to run and it had never occurred to her that her friends wouldn’t understand. She found the consternation of Caroline and her ‘pointless worrying’ hard to deal with. But now, when they travel together, this Manifestor has made an agreement to keep her friends informed of what she is doing.

If you do learn to keep others in the loop, life becomes easier. Admittedly, you don’t care about being understood – you just want to get things done. But for the sake of peace, if you’re working into the night at the office, pick up the phone and inform your partner. If you’ve gone off to save the world, let someone know what you’re doing! And if you have a Manifestor child, educate them to inform you before going off and doing something – just dress it up as a request, not a restrictive rule!