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"Change will not come if we wait for some other person or som, other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek." ~ Barack Obama

We live in a world where labels, programs, and studies place our children in categories. I believe every child is born with the same capacity and innate ability to achieve excellence; regardless of race, gender, economic or social background. Hence -- my quest to understand the development of children. From my research and observations, I'm convinced there are four components collectively working in balance attempting to establish the best route in the growth and progress of our children. Education, behavior control, cultural exposure, and health -- equally monitored and understood -- provide opportunity.

I was raised in a single-family setting after my parents divorced. It was my mother who established the foundation for my success. She created structure and discipline in our home, and taught me the value of family and meaningful relationships. My mother understood the importance of being multi-talented. She saw and seized opportunity when there seemed to be none….and had the ability to adjust, adapt, and advance. I learned these attributes from her and thank her for raising me into the man, and father, I am today.

As humans, we have the capability to self-regulate our behavior. This includes: developing good eating habits, engaging in physical activity, maintaining adequate sleep, and gaining exposure to social and cultural experiences. As parents we must practice self- restraint and dedication in our efforts to teach our kids right from wrong. Now that I have children, I ask myself what I want for them. I wonder how to maximize their potential without too much or too little pressure, or when I should expect certain goals and behaviors to be met. I know parenting can be the hardest, but, most rewarding job we have.

While on my quest to understand the psychological and scientific reasoning that contribute to the development of our children, I asked myself a lot of the same questions you are now asking yourself. What do I ultimately want for my child? How can I best raise him or her to make the right decisions? And so forth. My hope is that the presentation of this material, the supporting data, and my personal experiences better prepares you to make the best possible decisions for you and your family.