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Most conversations reflect what is going on in someone’s life

Young people talk about who is dating who and the latest hit songs. New parents tell anybody who will listen about the recent achievements of their child. People approaching retirement discuss how their investments and retirement plans are going.

As we grow older, health becomes the major focus for many of us, especially when there are particular issues. Unfortunately, as interesting as it is to them, most other people don’t like to hear someone complaining about their latest health concern or the side effects of their medication.

Veta is a truly inspirational lady I know. Her health is not ideal; she has arthritis and struggles to use her hands. Her legs aren’t as strong as they used to be, and she relies on a motorized wheelchair to get around; she needs assistance to live independently. Yet Veta never complains, and she never dwells on what she can’t do, only on what she can. Her focus is on all the good things she still has and can do. She takes a keen interest in the other people in her life.

Veta is a person others want to be around. She gives out energy to other people and they look forward to seeing her. I challenge you to be like Veta; a person others want to be around. Even if you are suffering or frustrated, don’t let them know it. Suffer in silence.

Note: Suffering in silence doesn’t mean not talking to your doctor or health professional about pain, symptoms or concerns.