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Some parts think that they have to give you pain, pictures, or verbal comments to protect you (see Figure 3-18). This is not true. These intrusions caused by pain from the past can reduce or eliminate happiness and satisfaction and get in the way of or distort life in the present. Suppose you were applying for a job and the interviewer was a person who looked like someone who hurt you in the past. The anger that you might feel, an intrusion by that part, would affect you and interfere with a good job interview. Parts are important because their knowledge, wisdom, and understanding can be used to create decisions and behavior. Experiencing the old pain and beliefs associated with the parts will only distort and interfere with life in the present. By treating the pain and joining that part with the Main Personality, the Main Personality will have the part’s knowledge, wisdom, and understanding to help you. By joining the Treatment Team, parts take a large step toward getting more satisfaction and having less pain in life.