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How to recognize the punitive parent during a session
ОглавлениеThe patient talks about herself in a very negative way
The aggression is directed at herself
The content of the messages is black and white
The patient seems not to hear what the therapist says
The patient repeats the negative message over and over again
The tone of voice in which the patient talks with the therapist is harsh, but not loud (like an adult voice)
The patients feel shame or guilt
The patient's self‐talk is characterized by words like “stupid,” “foolish,” “dumb,” and so on
The patient engages in counterfactual thinking, as if she knew beforehand how things would end
The patient attributes negative experiences as if she intended them and does not show understanding of the concept of bad luck. Thus, she seems to live in a world where everything happens intentionally, with the source of the bad intentions being her.