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both of those things without yelling? Do you have a desire to hit people when they disagree with you? Are human beings irritating and confusing to you?

Where are you going?

You can’t always predict where life is taking you, but if you think you’re going to make a big change in your life soon—less than a few months—then reconsider jumping into some-thing serious.

Who to Date?

If you’ve decided that you can possibly include someone new in your life, then what kind of person do you want to date?

It’s not a great idea to keep a set list of arbitrary deal break-ers in your head. These can range from standards for physi-cal appearance to education to economic status. All of these can be pretty snobby and limiting parameters to set for your-self – and could keep you away from someone worthwhile.

But it is a good idea to reflect on what kind of relationship would make you happy. Short-term? Long-term? Monoga-mous? Do you want to have long conversations about books? Do you want someone who enjoys the outdoors? Are you re-ligious?

Think about your values, hobbies, and emotional needs. Knowing yourself first can help you decide if someone is right for you.