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So, maybe you’re shy about meeting people in real life or you want to expand your dating pool further—that’s where online dating can help.

Online dating can be weird, disillusioning, and sometimes outright dangerous. You can’t really help that the Internet is full of anony-mous creeps. But it can also be exciting and fun if you approach it correctly. First things first, you need a profile.

All About You

Profile pic.

Smile in your profile picture (if you want to), it’ll make you seem approachable. And look into the camera, people feel more connected that way.

Evidence.

You can say you’re funny and interesting in your profile, but why should anyone believe you? Mention some personal anecdotes or facts that show what you’re claiming.

Buzzwords.

Don’t be something you’re not, but keep in mind how you de-scribe things and what you mention in your profile. Research shows words like “athlete,” “sushi,” and “driven” get a high attractiveness rating. (We don’t get the sushi part either.)

Accomplishments.

You don’t have to list your resume, but be confident about things you’ve done. People who mention college degrees get more hits.

Interests.

Show you’re passionate about something, then go broad and list other hobbies and activities you like. Be specific. Everyone “likes movies.” Do you like certain directors or genres? Mention those, too.

Your Online Persona

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