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“To question a wise man is the beginning of wisdom.”

GERMAN PROVERB

Some years ago a biopsy revealed that I had a malignant melanoma. My dermatologist spelled out the deadly nature of this type of cancer and insisted that I undergo surgery immediately.

I was shocked and extremely fearful. My mind raced with speculations and doubts. Is it really malignant? Could they have mixed up the biopsy results? Is a major excision and plastic surgery really necessary? Will I be cured?

My family urged me to get a second opinion, but I stalled for several days. Looking back, I now understand my reluctance. Quite frankly, I was afraid that a request for a second opinion would anger my doctor. I didn’t want to appear disrespectful, and I certainly didn’t want him to think I was questioning his judgment.

The truth, of course, is that good doctors welcome second opinions and are not the least bit threatened by them. If and when they do react poorly, it may be time to consider switching doctors.

By seeking second opinions, we acknowledge that we have choices and can still exercise a certain amount of control over our lives. We begin to take responsibility for our own well-being and become active participants in the treatment and healing process.

THOUGHT FOR TODAY

Whose life is it anyway?