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Losers and Winners
ОглавлениеTo pick up right where we just left off. It is really important to learn to ascertain exactly what energy you are putting out into the world.
Do not make a victim out of yourself in your own head. Do not repeat “poor me”, “sure, they can let themselves do anything, look at all the money they have…”, “trouble always comes in three”. Brrr. Don’t build an image of a weakling in your own head. Don’t let yourself feel that you are weaker than your circumstance. Because if you do, it will influence you internally the same way as a true wish.
So, who are the winners here? They are those that every single day, and at the critical moment of strong negative emotion, manage to believe that they are ALREADY winners. That they can manage not over individuals involved but over the situation itself. Feeling power over people can lead to a closed loop. To avoid getting stuck one needs to believe that he/she is above circumstances and avoid attracting others that will help them propagate the perception of being a victim.