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Imagine the following situation: your boyfriend or girlfriend has left you. Only a week has passed and you see that he gets out of the car of your dreams, his new partner is a celebrity, of great beauty with whom you could never get to compete and also extremely rich. Your ex looks radiant, as you have never seen her. What would you think at that moment? How would you face that situation?

Your self-esteem is at stake here. Self-esteem does not mean unreality. There are millions of people prettier than you, but that shouldn't make you feel like a monster. There are millions of people more talented than me, but that won't cause me to feel useless.

It is these types of situations that contemplate the degree of our self-esteem or self-contempt and we do not necessarily have to go through similar things to identify where we stand.

A creative person works in an environment that motivates their creativity. There are some geniuses who do not perform under pressure because a really intelligent person would not be in high stress situations and a situation of this type that has not been optional would be related as a life or death problem.

Self-esteem is a mental process, a series of beliefs. Low self-esteem, therefore, is a series of misdirected beliefs.

There is no more valuable tool than forging in our spirit the weapon of definitive self-esteem and the key to instant motivation that is what you will learn in the course of this program.

You will fall a thousand times; I can assure you. I sign it now. You will fall a thousand times and only your spirit will lift you.

They will deceive you, they will humiliate you, they will underestimate you, they will laugh at you, you will lose your job, one or more of your businesses will go bankrupt, you will fail hundreds of times. If none of this happens to you it is because you do not live on this planet.

That is the real world. But your inner voice will tell you to get up, your spirit will give you the impulse to do it, your mind will flood your body of hormones so that finally your body stands up and moves on.

Your brain does not expect you to be an idiot.

Your body does not expect you to stop.

Your spirit does not expect you to give up.

When your self-esteem rises like a dead man from his grave, your life will harmonize all its stages and the only condition that will impose on you is not to give up.