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Create continuity and consistency
ОглавлениеRules that you create must be upheld by you and your partner. If, for instance, children have been told that something is off limits, it must always be off limits, not just occasionally. Your partner must also know what is off limits and what action to take if they disobey.
Children learn by consistency, so your children must always be treated in the same way if they do something that displeases.
It’s very easy when you are tired or depressed not to stick to the rules and your children will soon learn that you sometimes give in if they ignore them. Hard as it is sometimes when you are tired, always stand your ground over rules. In the long run it will make life so much easier.