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Dear Celebrant,

This collection of poetry I have written is for you! I have been a certified Celebrant for more than three years. I know the struggles behind finding that attention-getting start, as we begin structuring our message to family and friends of a lost loved one. Not only should it be a beginning that captures their thoughts and concentration, but it should also be one that lets them know right up front what the focus of your message will be! I use poetry!

My goal has always been to never conduct funeral services as a dirge, but as a true celebration of life, designed to feature all the contributions, positive examples, joy and love of the deceased! A message that clearly says, “This is who your loved one was, and why his/her positive legacy is one to remember and emulate in your own lives!”

In other words, I am committed, as a Celebrant, to TURNING TEARS OF GRIEF INTO TEARS OF JOY!

Celebrant services can be religious in nature, completely secular, or a blend of both. Whatever the spiritual focus of the service may be, that is between you and the family; however, the family’s preference is always the direction you should go and honor, no matter what your personal beliefs may be!

I know many pastors, including those who work within the funeral industry, who adamantly disagree with celebrant funeral services that are void of any spiritual aspect at all. Their contention is “If the service cannot be centered on God and Jesus Christ, I want no part of it!” Pastors, you are preaching to the choir! When becoming a Celebrant, I too had to face such a dilemma!

I have been in the ministry for over forty years! Throughout my spiritual journey and study of the life of Christ, I am convinced of one demonstrated truth! Time and time again it is evident Jesus’ life concentrated NOT on the religious, but on those who were suffering from rejection, loneliness, confusion, grief, hunger, disease, or mental issues! He knew these vital issues had to be addressed first, before He could ever capture their hearts and minds to receive and comprehend the loving hope secured in His Gospel.

In Chapter 19 of the Book of Luke, the religious were scorning Jesus for going to dinner with the hated tax collector, Zacchaeus. A pitiful man who was only searching for acceptance and forgiveness. The response by Jesus (v 10) to those complainers was classic: “. . . the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.” In Matthew, Chapter 20:28, Jesus essentially said the same thing, when He again addressed the religious crowd: “The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve.”

These two statements, along with all the relationship-building good things Jesus did for others, convince me that if Jesus were here today, and was confronted with the decision of choosing between a religious funeral service and a secular celebrant service, He would be the first in line for the latter! You see, a family may refuse to have any spiritual focus or mention of religion in their loved one’s service, but there is one thing they cannot stop – you planting The Seed of Christ’s love deep within their hearts! The Holy Spirit will take it from there! We do not lead people to Christ. He does, and many times through the Seeds of love we plant! As a minister, there is no greater service to a grieving family than that! In all my years, I have not found any ministry greater, or more fulfilling, than the honor and privilege of being a Celebrant!

The following pages contain a collection of poems I have written to open almost all of my celebrant services, but you can read a poem during any point of the service you feel appropriate. You will find poems that are for religious services, strictly secular services, and a combination of the two. You will find poems designed to highlight various characteristics, loves in life, vocations, ages, and precious memories of the deceased.

You have my permission to use any of these poems, or portions thereof, to help enhance the impact design of your own service. Every celebrant service is unique! So feel free to change words (including any names used) that will make the poem fit your needs! Allow the poems to even guide you in writing your own celebrant poem!

You can also contact me, personally, if you need help in writing your own poem, or to simply ask me to write a poem for you! Just email me at d.phipps1023@gmail.com, and I will be happy to offer my services in ensuring the tears of the family you are serving turn from grief to joy!