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Table of Contents
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5 Preface New to the Third Edition
8 The World Into Which I Was Born
9 Section 1: Becoming During Childhood (Birth to Age 11) Chapter 1: The Trike, the Porch, the Dare, the Air Chapter 2: Choices Chapter 3: “Cool,” “School,” and First Grade Chapter 4: Milledgeville Chapter 5: The Rock Beneath the Ivy Chapter 6: If I Had Been Texas, Dr. Toomey Would Have Struck Oil Chapter 7: Will Lee, Jim Crow, and Racial Poverty Chapter 8: Perpetuating the Lost Cause Chapter 9: An Encounter With the Klan Chapter 10: Just as I Am Chapter 11: My Brother Was a Home Run; I Was Strike Three Chapter 12: Water Works! A Rush Downstream to the Reservoir Chapter 13: Judge Hardy Chapter 14: Sex at Church Chapter 15: The Loans Points to Ponder
10 Section 2: Becoming During Adolescence (Ages 12 to 18) Chapter 16: Making the Grades . . . Almost! Chapter 17: Hard Work Chapter 18: I Married the Football Team Chapter 19: Looking for Athletic Support Chapter 20: Saying “No” to the Skimpy Blue Speedo Chapter 21: “And This Shall Be a Sign Unto You” Chapter 22: Radiating Fruit Flies Chapter 23: Carrot Walks and Talks Chapter 24: Examinations and the Inauguration Chapter 25: Junior ROTC and Me Chapter 26: Cool Breeze Chapter 27: Mount Up-Some-More and Beyond Chapter 28: How the Past Came Into the Present Chapter 29: Typing Points to Ponder
11 Section 3: Becoming as a Young Adult Chapter 30: Greeks, Geeks, Freaks, and Misfits Chapter 31: A June Night in December Chapter 32: The Lakes of Wake Chapter 33: The Beers of My Senior Year Chapter 34: Student Government Chapter 35: Swinging and Undue Public Affection Chapter 36: Holding On to Your Beliefs Chapter 37: A Summer Camp Surprise Chapter 38: The Foxhole Chapter 39: The Good Neighbor House Chapter 40: Be Modest Points to Ponder
12 Section 4: Becoming Oriented to the Counseling Profession Chapter 41: The Calling Chapter 42: Bandits Chapter 43: “Uh-Huh” Is Never Enough Chapter 44: The Locked Ward Chapter 45: Tex Ritter Smith Chapter 46: From the Inside Out Chapter 47: My Pal Sal Chapter 48: Talk Is Cheap Chapter 49: Playing Hunches Chapter 50: Consultant or Catalyst Chapter 51: Sometimes It Is How You Ask the Question Chapter 52: Three Acres of Garlic Chapter 53: The Music of Life Points to Ponder
13 Section 5: Becoming Through Mistakes and Serendipity Chapter 54: Sleepy Time Client Chapter 55: Bo Chapter 56: Rabbits Chapter 57: Testing a Theory Chapter 58: Chipmunk Cheeks Chapter 59: The Right to Struggle Chapter 60: A Door, a Phone, a Window Chapter 61: The Price of Being Ill-Prepared Chapter 62: The Wrong Side of Presentations Chapter 63: Don’t Take It Literally Points to Ponder
14 Section 6: Becoming Skilled in Processes Chapter 64: The Basics Chapter 65: The Difficulty of Change Chapter 66: Boundaries Chapter 67: Boundaries Too Chapter 68: Modeling Chapter 69: Empathy Chapter 70: Afraid of Blood Chapter 71: Omelets Chapter 72: The Concrete Counselor Points to Ponder
15 Section 7: Becoming Through the Power of Words Chapter 73: When a Danish Is Not a Scandinavian Chapter 74: Specialized Language Chapter 75: The Words Are There but I Don’t Know Where Chapter 76: Knowledge Is Power Up to a Point Chapter 77: Writing for Life Chapter 78: Fog-a-re-a Chapter 79: Erotic or Erratic Chapter 80: Adjectives and Adverbs Points to Ponder
16 Section 8: Becoming Through Creativity Chapter 81: Socks Chapter 82: Pantomime Can Be Powerful Chapter 83: Nothing Could Be Finer . . . Almost! Points to Ponder
17 Section 9: Becoming Through Multiculturalism and Spirituality Chapter 84: Shirley Chapter 85: WASPs Chapter 86: The Argentine Chapter 87: Spirits, Spirituality, and Counseling Chapter 88: Putting on the Gloves With Mother Teresa Chapter 89: Becoming a Student of Culture Chapter 90: Getting There Chapter 91: Ten Pesos for the Gringo Chapter 92: Hiccups Overseas Chapter 93: Geography and Identity Chapter 94: Women Are People! Points to Ponder
18 Section 10: Becoming Through Connections Chapter 95: The Office Chapter 96: Happenstance Chapter 97: Sources Within Chapter 98: Cool Under Fire Chapter 99: 20/20 Chapter 100: Courtland, the Turkeys, and Me in Tennessee Points to Ponder
19 Section 11: Becoming Skilled in Working With Groups, Couples, and Families Chapter 101: The Wake-Up Dream Chapter 102: The Other Side of Labels Chapter 103: Nancy Drew Chapter 104: Airtime Chapter 105: Three’s a Crowd but Four Is a Family Counseling Session Chapter 106: Sex Therapy Chapter 107: Laura Ashley Chapter 108: Humor Chapter 109: Home Alone With Humor Chapter 110: Putting Words Into Action Points to Ponder
20 Section 12: Becoming a Lifelong Learner Chapter 111: Supervision Chapter 112: Court Chapter 113: Research and Theory Chapter 114: A Quiet Riot Chapter 115: Reality Sits in a Green Cushioned Chair Chapter 116: Who Wants to Work? Points to Ponder
21 Section 13: Becoming an Academic Chapter 117: Oh No, a Typo Chapter 118: Mr. TBA Chapter 119: Love on an Academic Level Chapter 120: Not by Work Alone Chapter 121: Rejection Chapter 122: Just Because You’re the One and Only Doesn’t Mean You Won’t Be Left Out Cold and Lonely Chapter 123: Counselors Anonymous Points to Ponder
22 Section 14: Becoming a Family Man Chapter 124: Research and Reframing Within the Family Chapter 125: Trees With Lights Chapter 126: A New York Adventure Chapter 127: The Pace of Change Chapter 128: Attitudes Chapter 129: The Wearing of Black and Development Chapter 130: Scars Chapter 131: Changing Names Chapter 132: Resiliency and Unpredictability Chapter 133: Finding a Vision That Works Points to Ponder
23 Section 15: Becoming a Leader Chapter 134: The Human Side of Leadership Chapter 135: Dealing With the Press Can Be a Mess—But You Should Do It Chapter 136: The Leader as a Catalyst and Servant Chapter 137: Leadership in Counseling After a Crisis Chapter 138: Smoke and Mirrors Points to Ponder
24 Section 16: Becoming More Aware of Issues in Counseling Chapter 139: Counseling as a Quiet Revolution Chapter 140: Counseling in an Age of Chaos Chapter 141: Counseling in Context Chapter 142: Diagnosis, Labels, and Dialogue Chapter 143: Forgiveness Is Transformational Chapter 144: The isms in Counseling Chapter 145: Territory Folks Should Stick Together Chapter 146: Counseling or Counselling Chapter 147: Why Counseling? Points to Ponder
25 Section 17: Becoming Amid Transitions and Endings Chapter 148: Aging but Not Developing Chapter 149: Termination Chapter 150: The Quilt Chapter 151: Hair Chapter 152: Avoiding Permanent Termination Chapter 153: On Grief and Gratitude Chapter 154 Meaning and Mattering: Chapter 155: Be a Good Ancestor Chapter 156: Always Becoming Points to Ponder
26 Epilogue
27 Appendix A: A Concise History of My Life