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You’ll need at least half of these things to have a successful relationship with an Adverse Aries.

Sex appeal: Just remember, if it weren’t for the promise of regular intimacy and sexual intercourse, Aries would just stay single for ever. In Aries’s mind, his or her lover needs to fulfill their part of the bargain by looking—and acting—like their sexual fantasy.

Thick skin: Arians say what’s on their mind. They don’t sugar-coat it, they don’t cushion it, and they certainly don’t hold back… and that’s when they’re in a good mood. When they fall into a bad temper, you really need to toughen up. You have to be able to take what they dish out without falling apart, or they will lose their respect for you.

Affection: More than just hooking up, Aries needs to feel like they are important to you. If you find ways to show your affection and appreciation, like surprising him or her with flowers or some light poetry action, Aries will really value your efforts. Just don’t err on the side of cheesiness, or Aries will suspect that you’re just putting on an act.

Truth: Do not lie to an Aries. Aries will always tell you the truth, and if he or she finds out that you’ve lied… you’re toast. Don’t even try to stretch the truth. Don’t omit the important facts. Just come to the table naked and honest and be who you really are. Aries will admire that. They may not want to date the “real” you, but they’ll at least respect you.

A backbone: Your Aries will argue, insist, and even manipulate to get his or her way. Don’t give in. Respect is a cornerstone to a successful relationship with a Ram, and if you are constantly bowing to his or her demands, you’ll seem very weak. If you need to, practice saying, “No. Not this time,” in the mirror until you’re ready to actually try it out on your Aries partner.

Loose reins: Whatever you do, don’t try to control Aries. It won’t go over well at all. Aries needs to be free and independent to make their own choices, and if you come between them and their passions, you will be the one to get burned.