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Under certain circumstances feelings can be imposed on you by other people, thus they won’t be yours. This usually happens when you deal with an emotional person, or in extremely dangerous situations.

Do not hasten making promises when you are surrounded by other people or in some extraordinary situations. Do not give way to your sudden emotions. Even more importantly do not take action while you are under the influence of such feelings. “I will think about it”, – these are the words and a life rule that can always save you from trouble.

Make a step back from other people for a while and ask yourself: “Why did these emotions occur? Are they really mine, or are they imposed on me by a relationship with this person?”

Real feelings survive for months or years. Their source is in the depth of your soul and in the memory of the family, of the kind. Emotions that are imposed contradict your culture. They can disappear almost immediately – usually within hours or days.

However if you did make a promise or acted under the influence of imposed emotions and after some time you regret it, it is important to be honest and to admit to yourself that right now your feel things differently and you would have acted in a different way.