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What kind of feelings other people have towards you you may recognize just by observing their attitude to you.

There are three types of such relationships: subordinate, overwhelming and equal. In each type the person in question can love you, however you will feel different expressions of those feelings.

Human starts his life from a subordinate relationship. The child expresses them towards its parents from the first days of his life. In exchange he receives an overwhelming attitude.

While being in an overwhelming relationship the person will direct you, teach you, cure you, manipulate you, will push you around, urge you to something. All this without consideration for feelings of the younger counterpart.

Equal relationships is something that one must learn. Such relationships are a rare thing. They require not only skills and experience, but also a continuous attention from both sides. Mutual respect and capability for a mutual agreement always lies in the foundation of equal relationships.