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According to Albert Schweitzer, those who find happiness are those who have a sufficient purpose. When you distill your values into a challenging purpose, your mission appears.

Before you can hit a target, you need a clear aim. Your mission is a life game that attracts like-minded people to participate in fulfilling your values. By combining your values into one coherent mission, you create a purpose that provides direction for your life. That mission brings together people who share the same values and gives them a way to help each other achieve what they all desire.

Your mission is your personal vision. It may be lofty and wonderful, or it may be simple and sweet. Some people want to change the world, while others may be more interested in earning a decent living or raising a family.

Vision means clarity. Your mission isn’t a mental image, but rather an ability to give your attention to events in the real, physical world. You become successful by seeing things as they are. To succeed, you can’t afford to harbor any illusions about your limitations. What one person can achieve, another can surpass. Viewing yourself as a small player won’t inspire others to join you on your mission.

Reach for great achievements. Make your mission a mighty one. Live your life as a series of amazing events. Throw parties. Schedule trips. Meet the people you admire. Become the person that other people admire. Organize people and events to serve your higher purpose. Goethe’s voice echoes through the ages, reminding us that boldness has genius in it.

Vision means looking to the road ahead. Remaining within the boundaries of your path allows you to more easily enjoy passion and pleasure. When you stray from your natural direction, your body signals you with fear and pain. Over time, pleasurable impulses provide frames of reference that focus your attention and keep you on track. Good sensations are linked to behaviors and procedures that accomplish your aspirations. Your senses provide the feedback that keeps you on course.

When you are focused on your mission, you won’t have much time for conflict. That kind of attentiveness is riveting. It makes you a better person. Your commitment inspires other people. You become so enlivened by living your values and fulfilling your purpose that people ignite their own careers by association with you. Your magnetism increases in proportion to the scope of your mission.

Your purpose sets the tone for your life; it focuses your allies on the same channel. A compelling mission creates attraction. It defines a game that aligns people and encourages them to tell others about your business.

When numerous individuals combine their visions into one shared mission, together they create a living system. When you start to understand yourself in terms of deeper connections, you find your place in the timeless flow of life. You achieve immortality by merging your intelligence into a purpose that continues beyond your life span.

In the world of worries, on the other hand, you drift, lost in time. You are a wretched mortal striving to acquire all you can before your miserable end. Recognizing your role instead in the larger family and community gives you a long range perspective. It provides a sense of meaning.

SEE OURSELVES AS OTHERS SEE US

How do other people view your business? What do your clients experience? You must know the answers to these questions in order to structure your business. When you achieve sensitivity to the needs of your customers, all other aspects of your business will fall into place.

People who have found their purpose move purposefully, as if they are going somewhere. Their aim is clear, their stride is confident. Those with no aim meander through life, trying to fit into someone else’s vision. They begin to exaggerate the losses and feel cheated by life.

Begin your business journey by establishing your own purpose. Try to summarize your mission in a few brief sentences. Be sure your mission ignites your passion. Just thinking of and stating your purpose should quicken your pulse and brighten up your day.

Design your purpose to benefit others. A great purpose serves humanity. As you formulate your mission, share it with people you respect. See if they react favorably. When your mission is meaningful, your natural enthusiasm inspires other people. Find the primary thing that moves you. It’s hidden within the activity that you most enjoy. The more you refine your mission, the happier you will become. Life is much more interesting when you make a big impact.

A proper mission is based on ambition. It requires a strong ego. Leaders are moved by one of three basic drives: Wealth, fame and winning. At the most basic level, entrepreneurs are not more noble than other people. We just want to get our way, just like happy children who demand everything without guilt.

To harness your inner drive you must know which of the three motivators moves you most powerfully. Do you secretly dream of fame? Or does financial freedom seem more important? Perhaps you are one of those people who prefer to win at any cost? Don’t use logic to figure it out. Instead, see which one excites you most. You might initially feel the excitement as fear. Don’t let that deter you. By facing your “positive” fears you unleash the power to thrill.

Even if you aspire to all three desires, one will emerge as your primary driver. If you are like most people, you have probably lived in denial of what you really want. Until you recognize your fundamental drive, you can’t even get on the game board. In lieu of fighting against the base side of human nature, learn to harness it. Ambition is the drive that determines the size of your target. False humility suppresses your arousal. Hiding from your challenge dulls the senses.

As you step out onto the playing field you leave your timid character behind. Standing up for your mission makes people see you in a new light. Think about how you want others to view you. Brand yourself with the image you want to live, before someone else puts their brand on your hide. What kind of character will you play? How will you costume that character? What position will you play in the theater of business?

The image you convey is the only direct link most people will have to your purpose. Your business style must relate to the people who are your target audience. It must arouse their desire to do business with you.

In the beginning of your career you may need to try some different images. Trial and error lets you know when your “look” is right to bring you the connections you desire. People are birds of a sort, who associate by their “feathers.” How you present yourself determines your flock. Evolve an image that expresses who you really are. If you aren’t being yourself, you are presenting a false image that will halt the growth of your business.

BARRIERS TO LIVING YOUR DREAM

It takes a compelling reason to exact real change in anyone. Determining your purpose provides that compelling reason. That reason must be stronger than the obstacles you will face.

The moment you embrace your purpose, your faults will begin to show themselves. You will discover that your self-image is at odds with reality. Part of refining your aim in life is seeing yourself more clearly. Be prepared to not like all that you see. Your evaluation of your capabilities is based on assumptions that don’t hold up under fire. The very act of deciding where you want to go will force you to notice some of the things you are doing that are taking you in the wrong direction.

Maybe you are too pushy. Or do you quit too easily? Perhaps you even secretly prefer to prevent other people from enjoying their own lives. It is impossible to find your fatal flaw by simply looking for it. If it were so easily found, you would have already fixed it. Still, unconsciously you think you know where the problem resides. But each step of business reveals a new crop of petty attitudes that must come to the surface to melt away.

One way to confront your weaknesses is to get help from people who love and respect you. Ask them to be candid. Ask them if they see any patterns in your behavior that might interfere with your success. Set up ground rules. No criticism and no advice. No personal agenda. Just accurate descriptions of actions and behaviors they have seen that might sink your craft. Some of what you hear might sting, so don’t respond. Sit with their feedback for a couple of days. Then go back and repeat their observations to them without comment to make sure you heard them right.

The mind is incredibly effective at self-delusion. That’s why you want to learn to think as objectively as possible at this point in your career. Further refine your ability to stop thinking in terms of who is right and who is wrong. Instead, expand your skill at viewing each situation in terms of what worked and what didn’t work. This theme will come up again as you grow into new stages of business.

Until now your mind has been trained to focus on simple answers and seek simple solutions. Associate with people who think differently. Practice thinking with scenarios that allow you to consider many possible courses of action. Use analysis to catch the inconsistencies in your thinking. Let logic replace the mental habit of twisting events to make your view right and prove that other interpretations are wrong.

Stop making excuses. Let your results speak for you. Allow your mind to concoct all the reasons explaining why you have yet to reach your goals. Acknowledge those ideas, and then let them float by. None of them hold any clue to your effectiveness. Train your attention to watch the outcomes you produce.

Assess your cash flow and your intimacy every day. Both are dependable barometers of your aliveness. If you are doing without these essential qualities, you are probably frozen in your mental interpretation of life.

Clarity comes from observing the outcomes of your actions. Every experience either provides additional energy or robs you of it. The rest is just explanation or justification. When you truly learn something, your vitality increases. Your mind may react with confusion. That just means you are entering new territory. Often when your plans go awry and your whole life is collapsing, you will catch a glimpse of yourself in the mirror with eyes as bright as fire.

Contemplation is a technique of relaxing while considering many possibilities and perspectives. By remaining calm, you can accept all possible outcomes emotionally. Once your mind is clear, a clear mission begins to emerge.

THE MISSION STATEMENT

Your mission requires a plan, just as a journey requires a map. The details may be fuzzy at this stage of business, so don’t worry about getting a business plan together yet. Just start with a simple mission statement that communicates to other people what your career means to you. Write your aim in a few simple sentences so that potential associates can evaluate your intention. What will your project or business deliver to other people? How will you achieve your purpose? Why would others be inspired to assist you? Be sure to put your aim in positive terms.