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by Judith Clark

Some twenty years ago, at a time when few people in the United States or in the world knew who Sri Sri Ravi Shankar was, he offered to come to my home in Connecticut and gave a talk. I gathered some friends in my living room that evening to listen to him. When he had spoken for a while, he asked if anyone had a question. I did.

He had been explaining the importance of being with your feelings and that greatly troubled me. I was in psychotherapy at the time, where the guiding principle was ‘Be With Your Feelings’, but I had found that some feelings were too big and too overwhelming to allow in. I could not sit with them (I had tried!) and I did not want to. Now His Holiness Sri Sri Ravi Shankar was sitting on my living room sofa and saying, “Be with your feelings.” When he asked if there were any questions, I raised my hand.

“What if that is hard to do?” I asked—putting it mildly. He responded by explaining—how to sit with feelings and go fully through them—exactly what I did not want to hear.

I was reluctant to press my point, but inside my question was still burning.

Sri Sri talked some more and then asked, “Are there any other questions?” Without a pause, he added, “Judy has a question.” He knew! Emboldened, I restated my question. “What if the feelings are so powerful— frightening actually— that you cannot let them in?”

He countered my question with another question: “How did you feel at that time?”

As I thought about that, the feeling itself came back and, to my own surprise, I heard myself say, “Helpless.”

“The feeling of helplessness is the beginning of true prayer,” he replied with a gentle smile.

The unexpected words brought a rush of relief. Helplessness was not the dead end as I had seen it to be, but a beginning place, a place where, I came to find, I had little to fear.

This book is based on the surprising wisdom offered by a man who walked into my life, without a context for me to put him in. His very figure—flowing white robes banded with gold trim, sandals, long black hair and beard—made him appear different from me and from anyone else I knew. Yet he reflected back to me a sense of myself that had been missing for a very long time.

As the time passed I found myself being led, through his words and his presence, to look at a great heart and find there the possibilities for my own. “All that you see in me, you will find in yourself also,” he would say.

What began with words had expanded in experience. The breathing practices and meditation that he taught led me to a growing sense of wonder and the familiarity of inner quietness, even to moments of transcending name, time and place, and to feel happy for no reason.

HOW THIS BOOK CAME TO BE

Sri Sri (as he is known) speaks somewhere in the world almost every day. It was my good fortune to hear many of his first talks, and, because he asked me to edit some of them, I had a reason to go over his words again and again. Those are words that have transformed the way I see myself and others, words that offer the possibility of peace to each one of us and to this troubled world. Because they have opened my heart and changed me, and because Sri Sri has asked me to, I have gathered his words together and created this book. I have provided transitions and examples where needed, but the words are basically his; an offering of wisdom that joins a long line of ancient sages who came before him.

This ultimately practical book calls you to fully experience who you are. It is Sri Sri’s gift to you. Enjoy unwrapping it.

SUGGESTIONS FOR READING THIS BOOK

This book is for you…where you are and as you are in your life right now. You may be feeling something is missing. Consider the possibility that nothing is missing, that there is nothing you lack.

This is a book to wonder upon. If you read Chapter One first, it will ground you in the amazing reality of who you are. Then you can either read it in sequence or be led by what interests you or by questions you may have. Keep the book nearby—on top of the TV, in your gym bag, by your bed—where you can easily pick it up and thumb through it. Your eyes may fall on words that seem to speak directly to you. If you find places that offer you comfort, you may want to rest there awhile. You may choose to revisit pages you have already read and perhaps find something you missed the first time around. You may also want to interrupt your reading and allow time for some new understanding to be absorbed.

From time to time, consider choosing one suggested action among the many that you will find here and incorporate it into your day. Forgive yourself for any mistake that you have made, stop blaming and complaining, let go of a past event that you have been regretting. As you do this, the words you read here will drop down from your head to your heart and you will more easily experience the love, joy, happiness, beauty and truth that you are.

What you know is of the greatest value when you apply it to your life. You may be amazed by what then happens.