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Shyness and fear of rejection
ОглавлениеWho do you really admire in your community or in your circle of friends and family? Who do you emulate in terms of profession, spiritual beliefs, or ethics?
Even if you think this person may not be able to spare his or her valuable time, what is the worst that can happen if you ask for his or her advice? He or she may direct you to someone who could help you. As far as I am concerned, getting a “No, sorry,” reply is better than to hear years later: “You never asked; I’d have been more than happy to help.”
Do not let shyness steal opportunities away from you or prematurely strip you of your chance for success just because you are afraid to be rejected. If you ask diplomatically for help and support, you may find that people are flattered that you hold them in such high regard. (There are more in-depth guidelines about mentorship and mentoring others in Chapter 9, Networking.)
Know that your passion and love of what you do — art, teaching, and imparting your knowledge — are what will drive you out of your comfort zone. With experience your inner strength and confidence will grow. Have faith in your core beliefs and surround yourself with those who can help you grow even more resilient.