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When people with opposite characters are together that often is followed by crash. The relationship between a completely different twice people is not a good decision. Don’t have a way one of them to listen classical music while the other enjoys wild rock compilation. Based on the exact assessment no have matter how much they attract because can’t stay together for a long time. Compromises will hinder on their relation. Now you thinking about self if you are in similar position.

– How I will fun with my partner together? – The answer is – no way. To have a beloved means doing activities together. To go to the cinema, theater, concert, walk, holiday or other together. Do you already see a problem in the opposite characters? If answer is no you imagine how you want to watch a comedy but your beloved liked a thriller and he doesn’t want to watch the melodramatic comedy which you prefer. Well there will be a compromise in the beginning but once, twice, three times and the cup will overflow. Everything accumulating in us and when the cup with patience and retreat is full the end coming. In such moments accumulated tension spews and people separate. When talking about a character of the other we can’t say that of 100% must be like us but availability of many differences destroy the relation. In moments in which we are ready to compromise nevertheless in ourselves stack anger, fury and dissatisfaction.

– Why should I make a compromise? Why not the other? -But on the end to prevent a scandal we reconciled which sooner or later leads to end. In one moment we asking ourselves:

– Why was necessary all of this? Why didn’t I understood earlier? Why didn’t I saw that? Should I had to lose that years of my life? – Now I can say that you asking the right questions. If you had earlier thought of analyzing your relationship and to clarify your desires and needs already you could be with right partner. It is time to refute other used often phrase.

– “By experience does not hurt the head” – completely wrong hurts. Namely from nerves in the time of the senseless experience will certainly be your head hurts. From this you will be the best angry to yourself. To be healthy, happy and to feel good we need from serenity. This calm can give us only one a real connection without tension and often quarrels. And as we have decided to refuse statements let us continue with:

– “When people quarrel have love between each other” – not is so, wrong statement. If you really love someone you like his actions and behavior therefore you do not have to make scandals. People are prone to love but true love is unique and special. She differs from the love that we feel to familiar people around us, family or colleagues from work. When we looking for a partner become aware we can’t really love two people. If we feel the same to different two people none of them are our soul mate. Once recognized her nothing else can compare with these feelings nothing can spoil this. Because when we really are in love and ask right questions to ourselves everyone answers are:

– Yes.

– Does he is gentle?

– Does he love animals?

– Does he like the sea?

– Does he eat sweet cake?

– Does he makes something romantic about me?

When we have similar characters it is easy to answer with Yes. When we are different the answer will be No probably.-What about a vacation? To go with a completely different person will need somebody of us to make a compromises. You plans a vacation to relax, to break from the boring, monotony and supposed to be enjoy. An excursion with ours opposite would not be a pleasure instead this will be a nightmare and a lot more tiring than work environment.

– Did you happen to go somewhere with your beloved and instead of resting to been nervous in more of time? – If that so, you have a problem. All of us act differently in given situations. Someone resigns with the differences for money and a good life. Others for his fear of loneliness.

– Is it worth it? Are you ready to deny from your true love? Will you be able to replace the delight that would you be have by the right partner? Are you ready to walk a way accompanied with sadness, nerves and disappointments to do not be alone or poor? Don’t need to give up of serenity and spiritual freedom only because you are frightened of lonely or for material benefits. Be yourself and seek love because this unique feel can’t be replaced with nothing. May be now I dissuaded you from your self-destructive actions and I ruined your fake ties. Let thinking real:

– What are you living for?

– What do you want?

– What do you dream of? That which left in our memory during life are the emotions. Moments with people:

– The first time when I drove a bicycle with my brother. A great weekend for fish with my parents. Skiing weekend with my friends last winter. – Ask yourself:

– Do you remember when you bought something? -don’t talk about the last few weeks.

– Do you remember before five years ago to had French branded bag or Swiss clock? – No, you don’t even think about it. But in your mind somewhere you remember for walked in the park with your kids. This is important. The moments with people and communication. When it’s easy we feel good and happy. If we have thousands of scandals with someone the thought of bad relations remains in our minds. Well as you want to complain and be constantly tormented of your personal life OK. Choice is yours. But if you want to meet true love and ready for this just be happy at that you are awake up today. When your face make a stupid smile after look in eyes of beloved is irreplaceable. Be sincere with yourself and give answer on your questions. Don’t started meaningless and tiring relationships. Focus on that you want and it will come to you. Not waste time in self-deception. Increasingly we seeing people try to cope with negativity and dissatisfaction. We can’t be in good soul state if constantly is necessary to suppress our inner self. For this it is important to unravel the inconsistencies in words “Opposites is attract”. If you read carefully and answered own questions already you know that opposites characters not stay together for a long time. Are we looking for something for once -Yes. – But for serious and promising relationships the difference destroy the good relations.