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ОглавлениеSpeak to your spouse and relatives
Read: Matthew 19:4–6
Nobody likes to reveal that they are struggling. This is highlighted by the way we greet each other, “Hello”, “How are you?”, “Fine, thanks. How are you?” Very seldom will people say “It is not going well because…” This is especially true in close relationships. Many people do not let their spouses know that there is financial trouble. Here, once again, we are faced with the issue of pride and the perception of failure. In this passage, Jesus speaks about the relationship in marriage. Jesus may as well be speaking about any relationship that is grounded in love. Love overcomes all obstacles and true love does not allow anything to destroy a good relationship. As a matter of fact, it rather supports, encourages and gives the assurance that you will not be left out in the cold. Keeping struggles to one’s self eats away at one’s spirit. It is amazing what a change in feelings happens when you dare to share your struggles with a spouse, a loved one or a very special friend. Pouring out your soul, being able to say to someone “I trust and love you enough to share my problems with you” is a liberating experience. You may be surprised by their response. Loving relationships will make you feel accepted and supported. These folk may be able to share some insights into the problem that you did not consider. Pray about it and dare to share. God may very well use someone else to contribute toward your recovery.
Prayer
Almighty God, you know my deepest needs. Give me the courage to share my struggles with someone whom I love and trust. Grant me wisdom so that I may speak to the right people and endow them with grace and compassion so that I will know your love through them. I pray for…
… that they will accept me and hear my cry for help. Amen.
Suggestion
Speak to those closest to you about your problem. Don’t anticipate quick solutions. Perhaps you can start the conversation by using these or similar words: “I know I can trust you, because I love you. I need someone to listen to me, because I am experiencing difficulty. Can I share with you?”
