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EMOTIONAL STRESS
ОглавлениеThe higher your Total Life Stress, the higher the number of symptoms.
SYMPTOM INDEX
When people are chronically ill, they often have other symptoms. Do you have any of the following? Please check only those that you have now or recently.
___ | Depressed mood |
___ | Loss of interest or pleasure in things you used to enjoy |
___ | Significant weight change (loss or gain) |
___ | Frequent eating between meals |
___ | Insomnia |
___ | Snoring |
___ | Sleepwalking |
___ | Hypersomnia |
___ | Agitation |
___ | Sluggishness, slow to function |
___ | Fatigue, low energy, or feeling tired all of the time |
___ | Feelings of worthlessness or guilt |
___ | Difficulty concentrating, thinking, and remembering |
___ | Indecisiveness |
___ | Recurrent thoughts of death or suicide |
___ | Suicide attempts |
___ | Nervous exhaustion |
___ | Worrying excessively or being anxious |
___ | Frequent crying |
___ | Being extremely shy or sensitive |
___ | Lumps or swelling in your neck |
___ | Blurring of vision |
___ | Seeing double |
___ | Seeing colored halos around lights |
___ | Pains or itching around the eyes |
___ | Excess blinking or watering of the eyes |
___ | Loss of vision |
___ | Difficulty hearing |
___ | Earache |
___ | Running ear |
___ | Buzzing or other noises in the ears |
___ | Motion sickness |
___ | Teeth or gum problems |
___ | Sore or sensitive tongue |
___ | Change in sense of taste |
___ | Nose stuffed up |
___ | Runny nose |
___ | Sneezing spells |
___ | Frequent head colds |
___ | Bleeding from the nose |
___ | Sore throat even without a cold |
___ | Enlarged tonsils |
___ | Hoarse voice even without a cold |
___ | Difficulty or pain in swallowing |
___ | Wheezing or difficulty breathing |
___ | Coughing spells |
___ | Coughing up a lot of phlegm |
___ | Coughing up blood |
___ | Chest colds more than once a month |
___ | High blood pressure |
___ | Low blood pressure |
___ | Heart trouble |
___ | Thumping or racing heart |
___ | Pain or tightness in the chest |
___ | Shortness of breath |
___ | Heartburn |
___ | Feeling bloated |
___ | Excess belching |
___ | Discomfort in the pit of your stomach |
___ | Nausea |
___ | Vomiting blood |
___ | Peptic ulcer |
___ | Change in appetite |
___ | Digestive problems |
___ | Excessive hunger |
___ | Getting up frequently at night to urinate |
___ | Urinating more than 5-6 times a day |
___ | Unable to control your urine |
___ | Burning or pains when you urinate |
___ | Black, brown, or bloody urine |
___ | Difficulty starting your urine |
___ | Constant urge to urinate |
___ | Constipation |
___ | Diarrhea |
___ | Black or bloody bowel movement |
___ | Grey bowel movement |
___ | Pain when you move your bowels |
___ | Bleeding from your rectum |
___ | Stomach pains which double you up |
___ | Frequent stomach trouble |
___ | Intestinal worms |
___ | Hemorrhoids |
___ | Yellow jaundice |
___ | Biting your nails |
___ | Stuttering or stammering |
___ | Any kind of problem with your genital or sexual organs |
___ | Sexual problems |
___ | Hernia or rupture |
___ | Kidney or bladder disease |
___ | Stiff or painful muscles or joints |
___ | Swelling joints |
___ | Pain in your back or shoulders |
___ | Painful feet |
___ | Swelling in your armpits or groin |
___ | Trouble with swollen feet or ankles |
___ | Cramps in your legs at night or with walking |
___ | Itching or burning skin |
___ | Rash or pimples |
___ | Excess bleeding from a small cut |
___ | Easy burning skin |
___ | Dizziness or light headedness |
___ | Feeling faint or fainting |
___ | Numbness in any part of your body |
___ | Cold hands or feet even in hot weather |
___ | Paralysis |
___ | Blacking out |
___ | Fits, convulsions, or epilepsy |
___ | Change in your handwriting |
___ | Tendency to shake or tremble |
___ | Tendency to be too hot or too cold |
___ | Sweating more than usual |
___ | Hot flashes |
___ | Being short of breath with minimal effort |
___ | Failure to get adequate exercise |
___ | Being overweight |
___ | Being underweight |
___ | Having lost more than half of your teeth |
___ | Bleeding gums |
___ | Badly coated tongue |
___ | A lot of small accidents or injuries |
___ | Varicose veins |
___ | Headaches |
___ | Other aches and pains |
___ | Feeling pessimistic or hopeless |
___ | Have had any kind of surgery within the past year |
___ | Being upset easily by criticism |
___ | Having little annoyances get on your nerves and make you angry |
___ | Getting angry easily |
___ | Getting nervous around strangers |
___ | Feeling lonely |
___ | Having difficulty relaxing |
___ | Being troubled by frightening dreams or thoughts |
___ | Being disturbed by work or family problems |
___ | Wishing that you could get psychological or psychiatric help |
___ | Being tense or jittery |
___ | Being easily upset |
___ | Being in low spirits |
___ | Being in very low spirits |
___ | Believing that your life is out of your hands and controlled by external forces |
___ | Feeling that life is empty, filled with despair |
___ | Having no goals or aims at all |
___ | Having failed to make progress towards your life goals |
___ | Feeling that you are completely bound by factors outside yourself |
___ | Feeling sad, blue, or down in the dumps |
___ | Feeling slowed down or restless and unable to sit still |
___ | Frequent illness |
___ | Being confined to bed by illness |
For men only:
___ | Having a urine stream that’s very weak or very slow |
___ | Having prostate trouble |
___ | Having unusual burning or discharge from your penis |
___ | Having swelling or lumps in your testicles |
___ | Having your testicles painful |
___ | Having trouble getting erections (getting hard) |
For women only:
___ | Having trouble with your menstrual period |
___ | Bleeding between your periods |
___ | Having heavy bleeding with your periods |
___ | Getting bloated or irritable before your periods |
___ | Taking birth control pills (in the last year) |
___ | Having lumps in your breasts |
___ | Having excess discharge from your vagina |
___ | Feeling weak or sick with your periods |
___ | Having to lie down when your periods start |
___ | Feeling tense and jumpy with your periods |
___ | Having constant hot flashes and sweats |
___ | Have had a hysterectomy or on hormonal replacement |
TOTAL SYMPTOMS _______
If you have more than ten symptoms, the time has come to make some intelligent decisions about your lifestyle! And if you have over twenty symptoms, you may well already have significant maladaptation or illnesses!
Even without significant symptoms, it is wise to consider by age 30 some tests that might help you avoid major illnesses later:
Complete blood count—red blood cells, white blood cells, platelets, etc.
Chem panel—electrolytes, cholesterol, liver, and kidney functions, etc.
Homocysteine—this should be 7.5 or LESS. Anything higher increases risk of heart attack, stroke, and cancer.
Cardiac calcium index—the simplest, safest, least expensive way to be sure you are not beginning the process of coronary arteriosclerosis
Susan Kobasa has been a major contributor to our understanding of hardiness—our resilience or tolerance of life stressors. Since so many people are not optimally healthy and suffer the ravages of stress, it is important to look at the foundation of a healthy life. Clinically, about 40% of Americans are depressed and a similar number are not truly happy—they have what I call a subclinical depressive miasma. In addition to the genes we receive from our parents, there is a social environment that is critical for health. Obviously, there are essentials such as air, water, food, clothing, and shelter. Without those, nothing else is even worth considering. The next most essential is nurturing, which should begin with conception. Therein begins the problem for the 40% of individuals who are conceived out of wedlock. Children of unwed mothers are much more likely to be born prematurely, have lower birth weight, and have many times more emotional and physical problems than children born to committed parents. In the 70s, Ann Landers wrote a column in which she reported that of the 10,000 individuals who had written her, 70% said that they wished they had never had children! This led my wife and me to write To Parent or Not? This implies that a huge percentage of parents are too stressed themselves to provide adequate nurturing to their offspring.
The minimum requirements for providing a child the essential nurturing:
A committed relationship of both parents who want a child
Optimal health habits while pregnant
A healthy delivery without spinal or general anesthesia
A nurturing home for at least the first seven years of life
Absence of any one of these situations leads to severe deficiency in oxytocin production, which is a problem in:
ADHD
Autism
Anxiety
Depression
Addiction
Borderline personality
Inadequate personality
Schizophrenia
There are of course many factors, but the outstanding finding in every one of these emotional/mental disorders is that oxytocin is deficient. And of course, major trauma at any age may block a previously healthy person’s production of oxytocin, leading to PTSD, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. In fact, I consider virtually all depression and significant anxiety to be post stress! Interestingly, stimulation of the Ring of Air also raises oxytocin, the bonding hormone which is deficient in ADHD, Autism, Depression, Addiction, and even in Schizophrenia!
From a physical point of view, disorders/diseases fall into several diagnosable categories:
Addiction
Autoimmune
Benign tumor
Biochemical/metabolic
Degenerative
Electrical
Endocrine
Hematologic
Hereditary/congenital
Immunological
Infectious—amoebic, bacterial, fungal, protozoan, viral
Inflammatory
Psychological: emotional, mental/spiritual
Malignant tumor
Parasitic
Surgical
Traumatic
Vascular
Almost all of these have some inflammatory component and some biochemical abnormality as well as a variety of immunological disorders.
And these problems seem to be associated with significant physical locations related to the psychological/spiritual issues of the seven chakras of the body:
First—All parts of the legs. Family issues
Second—Low back (bottom of third lumbar spine through sacrum), abdomen from belly button down and pelvis. Sexuality, finances, and security
Third—From the belly button up to the rib cage (1st through 3rd lumbar vertebrae); upper abdomen. Self-esteem and responsibility
Fourth—Chest, heart, lungs, breasts; (1st through 12th thoracic vertebrae). Love and judgment
Fifth—Mouth, neck, shoulders, arms and hands; (1st through 7th cervical vertebrae). Will power—ability to express needs and desires
Sixth—Brain, eyes, ears, nose, mind. Reason and logic
Seventh—Spirituality, soul, God
In other words, stress not only initiates a variety of biochemical abnormalities, but specific parts of the body and organs are also affected when the anxiety, anger, guilt, or depression are related to the specific issues of the chakras! The stress initiates inflammation in a specific organ which cascades into many biochemical dysfunctions and the wide variety of possible diseases. Now, the “physical” cause of disease does not in any way mean that there is not an underlying stress issue. In general, some current life stress elicits anger, guilt, anxiety, or depression, and it reminds you at a deep “unconscious” level of unfinished issues from a previous life! Then a cycle of lost memories feeds the underlying cauldron of worries and aggravates the situation.
Now that you have some understanding of the causes of all illnesses, the big questions are:
Are you ready and willing to examine the problems in your life and to make whatever changes are necessary to correct all health issues??
Are you willing to develop the absolute essential practices for optimal health?
No smoking
Maintaining a body mass index between 18 to 24
Eating a minimum of five servings fruits and vegetables daily
Exercising a minimum of thirty minutes at least five days a week
Only three percent of Americans have all four of these practices.
Having talked to thousands of individuals at my workshops over the past forty years who have come to hear about health, at most 25% of each audience maintains these four practices! All the drugs and surgeries in the world cannot substitute for common sense! As far as I can tell, health is far more important than any other aspect of life!
In addition to these four essentials, good sleep—a minimum of seven hours daily and for most people eight hours—is critical. In all of history, societal stress has been present—from natural stressors such as weather to political ones. Stress is inevitable. Thus, finding ways to cope with external stress becomes equally critical. Stress can be:
physical—heat, cold, pressure, physical injuries, etc.
mental/emotional—worry, anger, anxiety, guilt, depression
chemical—toxins such as arsenic, cadmium, aluminum, lead as well as some 550,000 chemical pollutants released into the air, water, and earth every year and now 80% of all food sold in the U.S. is junk!
nuclear—radioactivity has increased many thousands of times in the past seventy years
Physical stress is perhaps most easily understood, with heat and cold being obvious. And perhaps the most common serious physical stress injuries are created by a modern luxury—automobiles. Not that earlier travel by horse or on foot was without potential physical stress.
Mental emotional stress requires both proactive and corrective approaches. For instance, it has been shown that twenty minutes of deep relaxation twice a day reduces insulin requirement and adrenalin production by 50% for the entire twenty-four hours. (See The Relaxation Response by Herb Benson.) In 1929, Edmund Jacobson demonstrated that thirty minutes of progressive relaxation not only reduced stress but also actually improved 89% of most stress illnesses! And beginning in 1912, Johanne Schultz demonstrated that autogenic training, twenty minutes daily, reduced stress illnesses by 80%. By 1969, the first of six volumes on autogenic training was published, with 2600 scientific references. Although I have examined the wide variety of mental approaches to stress reduction for over forty years (See my 90 Days to Self-Health), autogenic training is still my favorite because of the tremendous research showing that athletes, students, business people, and those with most stress illnesses are managed well by this simple tool—coordinating the words with your slow breathing and creating visual images to reinforce the statements. Essentially, you get into a relaxed physical body position and repeat for about three minutes each of the following statements:
My arms and legs are heavy and warm.
My heartbeat is calm and regular.
My breathing is free and easy.
My abdomen is warm.
My forehead is cool.
My mind is quiet and still.
Get the sensory feedback, awareness from each part of your body—face, jaws, neck, shoulders, arms and hands, chest, breasts, abdomen, back, buttocks, pelvis, legs before and after twenty minutes of practice. Basically you can feel good and OK with no tense pain or discomfort and no feeling from each and every body part. The goal is the relaxed and OK feedback from each part! If after twenty minutes there are still areas that are not relaxed and OK, you can:
Talk to the body part—e.g., My back is relaxed and comfortable.
Love it—appreciate that part of your body.
Tense and release the muscles in that part of your body.
Breathe in and collect tension or discomfort from that part of your body and breathe out, releasing the undesired sensation.
Breathe through the skin over that part of your body
Circulate the electrical energy from your heels up the back to the top of your head as you breathe in, and circulate the electrical energy down the front of your body as you breathe out.
Expand the electromagnetic field around your feet and gradually up around every part of your body, toes to head, seeing and feeling yourself in a capsule of living EMF (electromotive force) energy. Start with one sinch and expand gradually to 12 inches.
Three months of daily practice will retrain your brain and autonomic, automatic, nervous system. Then you may be able to continue with only five minutes daily.
Other tools for total body relaxation and balancing are:
Good music
Flashing lights at 1 to 7 cycles per second, such as the Shealy RelaxMate II
Vibratory music, through speakers placed in the mattress
Using chakra glasses—there are the 7 major colors—red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, purple. Different strokes for different people—some people achieve much greater peace, using one they particularly like
Hot tubs, saunas, or a soak in a regular bathtub, perhaps adding a few drops of lavender oil to the water
Dancing or jogging
Just walking or lying in nature
Sitting in a copper pyramid or in front of a copper panel on the wall
Developing and using a mantra: I am relaxed and comfortable, etc.
Lying on a true magnetic mattress—MagneticoSleep is excellent.