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«BE LOVE IN YOUR LIFE, AND YOUR LIFE

WILL BE LOVE»

Worship yourself, that’s what you must do every day of your life. You are a little piece of God on earth. Everything created is divine, therefore, let yourself be worshipped, be your own god.

Seek in yourself what you yearn for in others.

You won’t be able to help anyone until you’ve healed all your wounds.

Many times you’ll wonder why you are alone and can’t find that partner, but the answer is simple. Look at yourself, observe who you are, what you are like, what you look like, what your emotions are like, etc. Are you sad or happy? Are you optimistic or pessimistic? Are you constantly complaining about how life or others are unfair to you and blame them? Then draw your own conclusions. All those thoughts are what you are projecting to the world. So, change your way of thinking, stop complaining, stop looking for someone to blame.

There’s no such thing as blame, that’s just a form of ego masked to hide the outcome of your actions or inactions. Nothing is fair or unfair, everything is perfect.

Life is like learning a melody in which you are always out of tune at the same fragment of the score. You need to go through that fragment again and again until you perform it perfectly.

Reconsider why you are alone, for that reflects what you are inside. You are somehow losing contact with others, and that’s what the people around you sense, because you project it with your thoughts. What others perceive is the result of your unconscious mind projection, it’s your inner self. Change that; after observation, reconsider where you are failing.

Maybe your body is not the best in the world, and you want a partner far from matching your fitness. Don’t seek the impossible, fix your figure to find someone attractive to you.

Fix your emotional body. If you are depressed or sad, that’s what you’ll get in your life, change it. Look inside you for whatever is giving you that mood and remedy it.

Our inner child is alone and abandoned, let him or her come out and fill your life with joy from morning on. Your children, nephews, nieces, or grandchildren can help you heal your inner child, observe them and be like them, flow like them. Do whatever is your passion, which can be as simple as cooking, handicrafts, writing, painting, photography. Do whatever fills your soul and gives you peace, thus you’ll heal your emotional body.

Reconsider your energetic body, because, although you may not believe it, we are sheer energy; we are a heap of flesh and bones, but we are also energy and electricity. The iron contained in your blood is constantly being pumped by your heart, thus making us electromagnetic bodies, so we must take care of that aspect of us too. Do sport, move your body, you don’t need to be a top-class athlete, just someone who can go up a hill without getting out of breath, or lift a weight without breaking their back. Fix those back problems you have, stretch your muscles, do yoga or whatever you need. Take a walk in nature, get in touch with it, because it will reload your energy. Go to the beach, to the mountains, to the woods, to the park in your neighbourhood, whatever is within your reach, but don’t stay shut in at home.

Once you’ve found the solution to all those problems, your life will be so much better, because your physical, emotional, and energetic bodies will be aligned with your positive thinking.

Positive thinking is only attainable through your inner will, no one can get inside your mind and modify it. You are a god on earth, and you can create your kingdom as you please; do it, it’s as simple as that. Think positively, stop grasping at the straw of conspiracy theories. There’s no one to blame, and complaints are like butts, everybody has them, so don’t complain. All those thoughts are responsible for you still being single, alone, portraying yourself as the victim of the world, because the world is cruel to you and people just want to hurt you. Get out of there.

Don’t let others decide your life, you’re not seeing your value and you let other people’s view prevail over yours. You’re emotionally hurting yourself by doing so. You are in charge of your life, make your own decisions, even if they seem wrong to others, because you’ll never be able to please everybody around you.

Learn to say no, otherwise, every time you give ground you are undermining your selfesteem, hurting your inner child.

Set reasonable boundaries to all your relationships; if you don’t like something or you get nothing from it, set boundaries and don’t let it happen. If the line is crossed, leave that person, he or she was warned about your rules and didn’t accept them. Be consistent with yourself, for that person doesn’t respect you. You are the master of your life, don’t allow what you would never do to anyone else.

You’re resigning yourself to picking up crumbs of love because of your insecurity. Start loving and respecting yourself, because you are the most important person to yourself in the world. Actually, the universe couldn’t exist without you, since you are part of this universe.

To love, follow the basic rules: know, share, and love unconditionally. Follow this order because, if you don’t, you might as well be picking up crumbs.

Know people first, share your time with them, and, finally, love them as if they were yourself. If you sleep together on your first date, you might be just giving free rein to your passion, but you won’t know who that person really is, nor what emotions or energy he or she has. Only by following the above steps, will you know if that person deserves your unconditional love. If they don’t, don’t give it, because you’ll be losing your energy, and you are a mixture of all the energies in your life. Every time you’re in a relationship with someone, you absorb part of the energy of that someone. Your emotional body can also be hurt, because, even if the intercourse is satisfying, that other person might be already engaged with someone else, or abandon you once it’s over, and that pain will be your fault for allowing it.

Not to mention your inner child, because you are causing him or her all the pain in the world by allowing that situation, you are losing all the joy you had and again becoming that lonely person you were, because, of course, the world is against you. You know you made your situation possible. Wake up and climb out of that well of thoughts, of that black hole of hopes. You are a divine being, show all that love to someone who deserves it, share it with someone who adds meaning to your life.

Sex is all very well, and somehow is necessary in relationships, but no relationship can be based purely on sex. Life is something else, it’s sharing for the sake of doing it and being happy without expecting anything in return.

Don’t expect any reward, don’t look for a partner, seek the love inside you to give it to someone trustworthy. The rest will come along, you don’t need to seek that love in others, you must seek it inside you.

When you flow in your life, giving that love to yourself, your unconscious mind reflects that on others, and it will make you find people like you. That’s why partners will show up, because you attract what you are. If you are love, you attract love.

Be love in your life, and your life will be love.