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If you’re a woman reading this, you have a definite advantage because you can examine yourself. Many women never take the time to look closely at their genitals, and I highly recommend the practice. Because your genitals aren’t as convenient to view as a man’s, you’ll need a simple tool: a hand mirror. Take off your clothes and seat yourself someplace where you can spread your legs easily. You can use available light or better yet, use a flashlight or the light on your phone to give you a clearer view. I suggest you do some exploring on your own, read the next few pages, and then go back and see if you can identify the various places that I mention.

As far as you guys out there, if you have a partner who’s willing, sharing in this experience certainly won’t do you any harm, although I have a few words of caution:

 If your partner has never examined herself before, maybe you should give her some time alone to take this little tour first, because your presence will no doubt be a distraction.

 When your turn to explore comes around, do your utmost to keep the examination nonsexual, even if you do get aroused (which you probably will). If you can keep the moment on an educational plane, then you have a good opportunity to ask her some questions about how she feels about her genitals, as well as what pleases her and what displeases her when you have sex.

If, after the grand tour is over, you’re both so aroused that you need to have sex, then be my guest — but only if you promise to put to use what you just learned and not go back to doing the same old thing.