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Acknowledgements

The original version of Tend My Flock, published in 1996, was a small booklet for the Diocese of Norwich. It was the vision and inspiration of Canon Paul Oliver who, recognizing a need for practical pastoral guidance for clergy, led the project through a careful process of consultation within the diocese. Tend My Flock immediately received national attention and there was a steady demand for copies from dioceses and theological training courses. Other dioceses have, with permission, produced their own versions with variations to suit local need.

I am extremely grateful for the generous support of Paul Oliver who, on behalf of the working party which produced the original Tend My Flock, gave permission for me to develop and expand the text, while retaining the title. Paul, encouraged by the then Bishop of Norwich, Peter Nott, led the working party with a wisdom and insight grounded in a lifetime of costly and reflective pastoral ministry. His example has continued to be an inspiration as I have worked on the revised text. Although Tend My Flock has been completely rewritten, it incorporates material from the first publication and is recognizably its offspring. While I take full responsibility for the limitations of this new version, I hope that it remains true to the intention and ethos of that pioneering publication.

I am very grateful to our present Bishop of Norwich, Graham James, for encouraging national publication and for writing the Foreword. I am also deeply indebted to the Bishop of Thetford, David Atkinson, for his patient encouragement, clarity of thought and sensitivity to the spirit of the revision. Without his wisdom and steady guidance this book would never have reached completion. The Revd Dr Richard Hines and Canon Vivien Elphick offered helpful and constructive criticism in the early stages and Bishop David and Vivien have made written contributions which I have incorporated into the text. Many other colleagues and friends have offered valuable suggestions and provided helpful comments on the draft manuscript.

The Diocese of Norwich, in which I work, is typical of many rural dioceses. It has many multi-parish rural benefices where small congregations struggle to survive, while the majority of the population live in urban and suburban parishes. There are some urban priority areas, but we lack the ethnic and cultural diversity of larger cities and conurbations and although many of the issues raised in this book are applicable across a wide variety of parishes, I have not attempted to address specific issues outside my experience.

I write as a lay woman in full-time ministry in the Church of England. I also write from the perspective of a professional background in counselling and social work. As a counsellor, working with clergy and members of their families and employed by the diocese, I share some of the potential hazards of dual relationships (that is, interacting with another person in more than one role). However, I am also aware of the boundaries which protect me from many of the complexities which ministers, particularly those in ordained ministry, have to negotiate on a daily basis. Counselling, as it has developed from the late twentieth century, has an important contribution to make in enabling individuals to find healing from the wounds which damaging childhood experiences or later life events can inflict. However, professional help can never be a substitute for the healing and supportive relationships provided by family, friends and colleagues, nor for the pastoral care which should be an inherent part of the life of a Christian community. Where professional expertise, such as counselling, becomes necessary, it will be far more effective when the person being counselled (whether lay or ordained) is held safely within the network of loving relationships and sustaining pastoral care which the faith community can and should offer.

In my role as a diocesan counsellor I have been sustained and stimulated by the friendship of my colleague Dr Roger Hennessey and by colleagues and friends, who have given encouragement and support over many years and helped to ensure that our work continued. For twenty years I have spent much of my time listening to and supporting clergy and members of their families as they have shared with me the costs and joys of ministry. This has been an enriching experience and a great privilege. I have unbounded respect for their commitment to serve God and to care for others with integrity. This book draws upon their experiences and could not have been written without their courage and honesty in sharing with me the pain and rewards of this calling. I hope their trust will be repaid and that it will be a source of practical support to those who share in pastoral ministry.

Over the years, as I have tried to make sense of complex situations and experiences, I have absorbed and reflected upon ideas from many sources, which have become woven into my thinking. I am grateful for these insights, but take responsibility for any errors of interpretation. I have endeavoured to give due acknowledgement to my sources in the text, but would wish to be informed of any omissions so that these can be made good in any future edition.

Kate Litchfield

Diocese of Norwich

Ash Wednesday 2006