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ОглавлениеWhen you are going to write a good wedding speech, you must have some guidelines on how to do it. It must not really be hard but just basic tips to help you in many ways.
Here are the 10 tips that I hope can help you a lot:
Have a plan and simple objective to develop the potential outcome. Imagine the things that you want to get out after giving the speech in front of the people. Do you like to make people laugh? Or touch the emotions of people? Before you write, think of the theme of your speech and visualize what will be the outcome of the things you are going to say.
Your speech must have formal structure with a good beginning, middle an ending. Audience will love to hear a speech that has a map or has sense of direction without drifting off from the topic. You have to welcome and recognize the people attended the wedding. Of course, you have to make the bride and groom the stars.
Do not say too much non-sense. You have to keep speech simple and unique. You can talk for about 5 to 7 minutes to let others also do their parts. Longer than that will just make listeners bored and might find other interests than your speech.
Always talk of positive things. You have to talk only of positive topics and scenario. Do not make any negative comments that will only give negative vibes on a happy celebration. It is a time to celebrate not to put a dark mark on a happy day.
You can research your speech which you can relate on personal stories. The personal stories can help you connect with the audience, especially the bride and groom. You are going to ponder on the beautiful memories you have relating to the celebrant and how you treasure the moments you have with them. How can you relate those stories can be done through searching to work for it positively.
You also have to remember to keep the personal stories short. As much as possible focus the story about the bride and groom because it’s not about you. Help people imagine how that moment become so special. Describe it clearly and briefly for them just to grasp enough the event.
Make your opening and closing good. People will mostly remember the speech between the opening and closing. The opening catches the attention of the audience so you need a key to make them want to hear more. The ending will give the inspiration and realization about the speech you have given. It is somewhat the core message you are trying to impart where they can feel emotions about what you have said.
Do not drink alcohol not until you have given your speech. You have to be alert and be yourself while giving the speech. You save yourself drinking alcohol when it is time to celebrate the wedding.
Keep your eyes contact with the audience. If you can sometimes forget your speech, you can use an index card to read the important points of your speech. Just avoid reading throughout the speech and keep your eyes on the audience as much as possible. This is to show that you are sincere on your speech.
Practice makes perfect. Practice your speech and rehearse it in front of someone. You have to get some opinion from others. You can also record the speech and listening back can help you improve your speaking skills and memorize the speech fast.