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You may be one of the people who are a first time to give formal speech in front of a large audience. There is a possibility that you are getting nervous now. It is okay for a first timer to feel that way because others who are also giving the same special speeches are nervous. Can you feel your stomach having like small butterflies inside as you are anxious on your part to be called? That is why we must really improve our self-confidence to give a much inspiration speech.

The reason why a person who is giving the speech is because of the wedding crowds waiting for a speech that will not touch only them but most especially to the bride and groom. What you need is to convert your nervous energy into making the most special speech that will touch everybody.

These are some things that you should keep in your mind whenever you are doing a speech in front:

It is not just you that get nervous about public speeches but also everyone who are assigned to do it. It’s part of the phobias that people feel around the world. There are even some who are afraid of giving speech than of dying.

The speech is for everyone who is close, supportive and interested people in the wedding ceremony. So, they will be anxious on what you are going to say. The people gathered around the special celebration are there for the union of two people whom they love. They want to hear an inspiration from you and not about your perfect speech. Whatever happens and the content of your speech, they will be proud of you because you tried to inspire them.

When you are writing your speech, think of these things as an inspiration also. Clear message speeches are easier to deliver and less scary to speak. Your audience will also have easier time to listen and very effective as well.

Here are some thoughts of what you can write about your speech to make it easier.

Start with an introduction that can capture their attention. Not only will you be the one to give the speech so make yours unique among others. That is why you need some start off that will trigger interest in their ears. You can start with some personal experience or scenario you encountered with the couple. It’s anything that you think that can portrait how much you care for the two for your audience to listen eagerly what will be the next content of your speech.

Once you got their interest, then you will want their full attention throughout your speech. After you got their attention, relate the experience together by giving some inspiring opinion about the personal scenario. Have a map on your speech to where it will be going. You can either make your speech funny or sentimental. You have the choice.

Once there is a map already, you have to follow the direction now to where it will go. You have to make sure that your topic won’t go out from the couple who are the stars of the day. People like speeches that are mix funny and sentimental.

Eventually speaking in public is always a scary experience no matter how much you already master the task and effective the tools you are using. What is more important is the way you deliver the speech easily where the keys are there and much better with humor. Just practice and practice and it will be a lot better next time you are invited to have the speech.

Too much time are consumed over speeches and toasts during a wedding ceremony, it makes reassuring when you plan about how to make it through it all. Speeches for best man and maid of honor can be written simply in many ways.

Events such as rehearsal dinners, showers or a bachelor party expect that there will be speeches. So, prepare yourself for appearing always in front of the events.

Take time to think of the things you might consider when you write your different speeches. Since you are expected not only to do it once but many times, you need to plan what you are going to say that really make sense.

Here are some questions that can help you in writing the speech. They are somewhat your guide.

What type of speech you like to do? Is it humorous, sentimental or poetic?

How long does it gonna be?

What is your role on the wedding?

What impression you like to give?

Is this a first or second time wedding?

How long do you know the couple?

How well do you know them?

Do I want the couple to remember my speech?

Take time to answer the following above so you can write a well written speech for the bride and groom. They can also help you think of the inspiration you want to impart that you can include on your speech. Write down each answer before you can start off your best speech. You can eventually edit them as long as you are satisfied already of what you have written.

Here are other questions that might help also:

How did you meet the groom? How long you have known him?

How did you meet the bride and groom? What is your relationship on them before?

How long has been the bride and group a couple?

What are the likes of both?

What are the 5 words that come in your mind when you see them?

What was the funniest thing you have encountered between the couple?

What do you wish for the couple in the future?

These questions can be very important so, you think well. When you have already answered them, it’s time that you make a lay out of your speech. This is to put great effort on your important speech and be easier for you.