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“Mikey, why did you want to be a cop?” That question made its way to me as each of us shared our reasons for joining the police department.

As I sat in the back seat of Rich’s car and watched the traffic on the Baltimore Beltway, I thought about an answer.

I stared at my reflection in the window, which mirrored my life. I was 26 years old and still searching for fulfillment, excitement and a sense of self-worth in my life.

In the eight years since I graduated from high school, my journey took me on roads and experiences I never would have imagined to see or travel.

I made a commitment to join the Air Force before graduation. Maybe I wanted to prove something to myself. As a child, I was always fat and self-conscious. Although I had very little self-esteem, I usually was accepted by most of the groups in school. Then my lack of confidence and how I perceived myself always held me back from most social activities. How I became a drummer in a rock band during my senior year still amazed me.

“I was always a dreamer,” I looked out the window of Rich’s car on the way to our first day in the academy. Even as a child, I had an interesting imagination and was always very idealistic. Maybe that was why I joined the police department. On the other hand, maybe I wanted to confront my fears one more time. Maybe I was just running from life again.

I remembered enlisting in the Air Force because I wanted to go to Vietnam. I think I wanted to prove something to myself. Two weeks after graduation I was in basic training in San Antonio, Texas and it was like a nightmare from which I could not wake up. Up to that point I lived a very sheltered life and the discipline, mental and physical control of basic training did not adjust well to my personality. Very early in life, I realized I had authority issues.

Eventually I did graduate from basic training, after being set back because of physical limitations, and I was assigned to Bolling AFB in Washington, D.C. For some reason, the Air Force gave me a career field assignment as graphic art illustrator, although I possessed no artistic ability. Not exactly Vietnam.

Maybe the Air Force knew something about me that I could not see in myself, my creativity. However, I was determined to get to Vietnam. It took a year and a half of transfer requests to finally get to where I wanted to be, Southeast Asia and into Vietnam.

When I returned to the United States, I was assigned to a reconnaissance wing in Tucson, Arizona. Nevertheless, life, once again, changed course for me. I fell in love. For me, this was a dream come true because of my insecurity with women.

“Life is a series of decisions and choices,” I looked at the image of my face in the window of Rich’s car that first day. I chose to take an early discharge from the Air Force, turn down a promotion and return to Baltimore in November of 1969 because of love.

The next four years seemed like a roller coaster ride. My future wife already had a daughter. I searched for a profession that was satisfying, rewarding and could support my new family. Although I had everything I wanted, a family, I still could not settle down and appreciate what I had in life.

As I continued to think about why I wanted to be a police officer, I reflected on the professional opportunities I gave up in the last couple years. After the Air Force, I worked at Westinghouse as a printed circuit draftsman, although I had no experience. I was very good at convincing people I was something that I was not.

Fortunately, a unique position was created for me with the Bureau of Customs in Washington, D.C. because of my wife’s influence. The Bureau needed a graphic art department at headquarters and I was chosen to create it. I became a department of one with no immediate supervisor. A dream opportunity. A secure government position. But, again, I was not happy or felt satisfied. I became bored very quickly and continued to drink more. Self-destruction also became a way of life for me, although I did not realize it at the time. Within a year and a half, I resigned and went to work at a gas station.

Our financial situation, and my self-worth, deteriorated rapidly. I had been an alcoholic since the 11^th grade and now it became a way of life. Our second daughter was born and we were struggling as a family. I was running from life and responsibilities again.

Finally, a friend helped me get a job with Prudential Insurance. Again, I was a failure. I did not have the personality or mentality for sales. As I continued to lose money, I also lost interest in my work. I deceived myself and everyone else. My only escape was in the numbness of alcohol. These combinations would lead me to apply to the Baltimore City Police Department.

“Not really a good reason to be a cop,” I stared out the window as we got closer to the academy.

Was this the answer I should give to the guys in our carpool? I was an alcoholic with a family in financial debt because of my professional failures, authority issues, no sense of accomplishment, unsatisfied with my opportunities and running from the reality and responsibilities in life.

But then again, maybe I still wanted to prove something to myself. I missed the adrenalin rush of the war games – the game of life and death. At least I could carry a gun again legally.

“So many personality conflicts,” I contemplated as the Baltimore Beltway continued to take us to our new adventure. The window of the car manifested images of my past and became the door into my psyche and soul, offering a glimpse into my future as we traveled the Beltway toward the academy.

I was the only child of lower middle class parents. Although my father worked a couple part-time jobs most of his life, he always stayed with his first and primary employment on the assembly line in a dirty warehouse making insulators for General Electric. His basic philosophy was that when you have a job stay with it. He could never understand why I continued to search for something better or more challenging.

My father left school in the eighth grade. I was never proud of him. Then, I never remember my father being proud of me. My mother had a hard and physical job pressing shirts in a factory. I never appreciated my parents. I only knew that I did not want to be like them.

As we got closer to Mount Saint Agnes Theological Seminary, where the Baltimore City Police Academy was located, our conversations briefly changed and turned to national issues. The Watergate scandal was the political hot topic and the Vietnam War or “conflict” finally ended.

The U.S. bombing of Cambodia was halted ending twelve years of combat operations in Southeast Asia. So many lives were sacrificed and lost. So many lives changed because of politics. What was it all for in the end?

For Rich, Will, Douglas and me, along with the other members of our new police academy class, life would also be changed. We were about to prepare ourselves for a different type of war.

As Rich turned onto Smith Avenue, I pondered about the location of the police academy. “A seminary is a strange place for a police academy.”

Then I looked at the other guys in the carpool. I didn’t really know anything about Rich, Will or Douglas. From our brief conversation, I felt that we all had different personalities. Rich and Will were more vocal and physically strong in appearance. Douglas was very quiet like me. What kind of police officers would we become?

As a child, I rarely saw a police officer in my neighborhood. In a way, I was afraid of police officers. I always thought they had too much power and authority. Now I wanted to become one.

Just listening to Rich and Will talk, I knew they would be forceful police. Douglas was quiet. He would not make it through the academy. In fact, Douglas resigned before graduation and faced drug charges.

As for me, I was not sure about my abilities to even survive the discipline of the academy. I was not strong enough, physically, for the self-defense training and agility tests I was anticipating. I remembered how I struggled in basic training.

I even doubted my ability to confront situations on the street if I did graduate. Inside, I was very afraid about life on the streets as a police officer. I was doubtful of how I would react in a fight.

Baltimore City had become a hotbed of unrest, violence and crime that summer of 1973. Our conversation turned to a police officer that had recently been killed in the line of duty. Rich, Will, Douglas and I were new recruits about to embark on our police academy experience with anxiety and uncertainty.

As I walked on the grounds of Mount Saint Agnes Seminary, preparing myself mentally for our first day of orientation, I was only apprehensive about the next sixteen weeks. My goal was only focused on graduation and not becoming a good police officer. However, I could never have imagined the experiences and events that would change my future.

The police academy curriculum was structured, primarily, to be paramilitary in design. Fortunately, for me, it was not as academically difficult or as physically challenging as I feared. Fear of the unknown can destroy people and set them up to fail. I was determined to succeed and not look beyond the end of each week.

The academy focused on developing teamwork and challenging each new recruit to build self-discipline. That was an area that was lacking in my life up to that point.

Initially our days were structured with basic academic studies: Constitutional Law, Criminal Law, Criminal Investigation Procedures, Motor Vehicle Law, Report Writing, Patrol Procedures and Processing Criminal Evidence. However, we were also challenged with self-defense training and physical agility exercises.

Eventually, most of us realized we were going to make it through the academy when we were issued our service revolvers and went into firearms training. Now we were beginning to feel like real police and looked forward to our field assignments.

Finally, the moment came to make our wish list of assignments after graduation. By that time, Douglas had left the academy. Rich, Will and I lived near Southern District and that was our first choice.

When the assignments were posted, most of our class got their choice of districts. Rich and Will were assigned to Southern District. As for me, fate took me in another direction. I was assigned to Western District.

No one volunteered for Western District. It was considered the worst district in the police department. “The Wild West” had a bad reputation. Most police officers were transferred to Western because of discipline problems in other districts. Why was I going to Western?

The one piece of equipment that every good police officer needs is a reliable nightstick. Several of us were getting custom-made sticks that were dependable in certain situations. Not regulation, but dependable.

In preparation for my new assignment, I ordered a unique nightstick that was lined with a lead rod from end to end. The handle was specifically tapered to come to a point. Good for cracking ribs if needed. The wood was solid oak.

Psychologically I was preparing for war. True, the academy prepares you academically, mentally and physically. The focus is on teamwork and self-discipline. However, in many uncertain and unexpected situations, life is determined by how you survive, especially when you are alone. I needed to depend on this lesson in life a couple years later in drug groups and organized crime associations.

Graduation Day finally arrived. December 28, 1973 was a day filled with mixed emotions. Most of our class made it. We came a long way, as a team, in only four swift months. Although we came from different backgrounds, on this day we stood in proud formation, as one unit, and raised our right hands in allegiance to “Protect and Serve the citizens of Baltimore City.” It was the last time most of us would see each other again.

My wife, my children and my parents were proud of me that day. I can still see the old faded Polaroid of my father standing next to me after graduation. I was the image of a new and idealistic police officer standing straight, proud and tall in my dress blue uniform ready to face the challenges on the streets of Western. But that pride faded in five fast years after losing my family and making the decision to resign from another police department or face disciplinary action.

What you learn in the academy is academic. It is all about going by the book. However, when you struggle within yourself as to what is morally right, what is wrong, what is ethical, what is legal and what is justified, you question yourself in situations. The further you walk after you have crossed the line, the easier it becomes to justify your actions.

In a society where the group in control arbitrarily makes the rules, life is, at times, determined by what you need to do to survive. You adjust. You accept. You adapt. You conform. You learn to survive. If you cannot, then you risk paying a greater price.

I remembered the three main characters in The New Centurions as I stood straight and tall in formation. One joined the military immediately after graduation from high school and found the police department as a place to face his hidden and past demons. The second recruit was from a solid middle-class suburban family who just barely passed the physical requirements for the police department and the academy and faced his fears of not measuring up to the role of a police officer. And the third character joined the police department because he was bored with his life and family.

As I thought about my life, at that moment, I smiled. I realized that I retained certain characteristics of all three of those new recruits as I raised my right hand to protect and defend. Protect what? Defend who? The citizens of Baltimore City or myself?