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If your partner is already pregnant, do not under any circumstances tell her you’re not ready. If, however, the two of you are simply exploring the idea of having a child, now is the perfect time to speak your piece and let her know that you’re just not prepared for fatherhood.

Reasons for not being ready vary from practical (not enough money or time) to logistical (still in school or caring for a sick parent) to selfish (not ready to share the Xbox). No reason is wrong, but if your partner is ready for a baby, don’t expect her to be fully supportive of your rationale.

Regardless, don’t agree to have a child before you’re up for the challenge just so your partner doesn’t get angry with you. Be honest, because once she’s pregnant, you can’t do anything to change the situation. If you’re uncertain now, be honest and speak up!