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RCT describes individual’s paradoxical reaction to seek isolation when they desire connection as the “central relational paradox.” This reaction can be learned behavior after experiencing chronic disconnections in meaningful relationships (Frey, 2013), or it may be driven by fear and a desire for safety (Comstock et al., 2008). If you have a client say, “I just need a weekend home alone,” you may ask them to consider if this is for rejuvenation or to avoid potential relational connection.