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Sorry to mislead you but there really is nothing you can do to prepare a young “older” sibling for the baby’s arrival. Yes, let your child participate in new baby preparations, but don’t assume it will be meaningful.

Having two children under two years of age will press you with physical as well as emotional demands. Keep in mind that this has been handled by many before you and that you too will come through with flying colors. While it will be more tiring in the beginning, your children—closer in age—will be better playmates for each other and you’ll be done with diapers and baby stuff sooner rather than later.

Rather than trying to make your first child grow up faster, it will probably do better for everyone if you just lower your expectations and let your toddler be “babyish” too. Rather than trying to prepare your child for the baby or explain the birthing process, try to spend extra time enjoying your older child.