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Let us get back to the question posed at the end of the first chapter: how to understand what role type your man is.

To find the answer, the first thing you need to do is to observe and analyze.

How does your man behave on the street, in public transport, at a restaurant, with his friends, with strangers, and with your parents?

Does he talk much or prefer to listen to others?

Does he laugh loudly and openly, or smile slightly?

Is he an active or a passive person?

Does he prefer mental or physical work?

What does he do more often, execute commands or give commands?

Is he accurate, punctual, reliable, serious, witty, polite, and tidy – or is it the other way around?

A portrait is composed of many pieces. It will likely take a long time to collect them all. One evening is not enough to understand what kind of a person your man is.

Today, the man can talk endlessly, but tomorrow will stay silent all day long. Or, he may behave calmly for a week, and then suddenly become enraged for no good reason. Or, he will work tirelessly, then slouch about with his hands in his pockets. One date he may shower you with compliments, then the next day be childish and rude like a teenager.

Do you understand what drives him? Can you guess what he feels? Are you able to predict his behavior at least remotely?

Watch him for as long as possible before trying to answer the question as to what role type he is. The more accurate the answer, the easier it is to build the relationship!

Let us recall who is who:

– the Scriptwriter ponders everything in the world and creates something useful;

– the Director controls people and manages various processes;

– the Actor shows himself off and longs for recognition;

– the Spectator feels for and helps others, not demanding anything in return.

However, not everyone fits perfectly into one role type. It happens sometimes that one personality may seem to be a combination of two.