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Why should we bother to get married? Why can't men and women simply live together and have children then live happily ever after? Life does not promise happy ever after. This thinking is not biblically sound nor socially constructive to the child's development. Two people marry because they are committed to each other. Marriage is usually the next progression in a relationship after dating. Marriage is by far one of the most serious decisions that you will have to make in your life. Is this the person for me? How do I know if I should marry this person? These questions race through your head even if you do feel comfortable about the person. Only time will tell however.

Marriage is desirable because of the foundation it provides for the family, even if that family is just the husband and wife. This of course assumes a good marriage. Marriage can also prove to be very beneficial to the development of the man and woman as they purportedly pursue dreams and goals together. Marriage can be the best thing that ever happens to you. Especially, when it is a Marriage made by God. God knows what you need. He created you both, so the one “for you” was made for you. Too many people get it in their mind that “this person is the one”. Well if you don’t try the Spirit by the Spirit; you could be getting involved with all manner of bad stuff that is definitely “not the one” for you and definitely not what God intended for you.