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We discussed relational images and how they form developmentally in the Human Growth and Development in Connection section of this chapter and will briefly address it here. RCT identifies relational images as powerful imprints that influence people’s expectations of how others will behave or respond to them. When people are treated with respect and care, they will likely see others as respectful and caring. If, however, they have suffered abuse or relational injury, they may grow to expect that others will hurt them or cause them pain. As a result, people with hurtful relational images may withdraw from others, expect and prepare for a fight with others, or self-protect in anticipation of further injury. Part of the counseling process involves the client and counselor recognizing these relational images and giving context to their fears, expectations, and behaviors.