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The Law of Attraction
ОглавлениеThe law of attraction can help fix a relationship that needs mending as well as can help a new relationship blossom. What you must understand is that the law of attraction can work for you, your environment, and the people you love in the same way.
Your environment and the people in your life have the same energy you have, and are drawn to your positive energy as much as you are drawn to theirs. If you emit negative energy towards other people and towards your environment, then negative energy will be drawn to you, which can cause a stir of bad luck or cause your loved ones to be hurt or to hurt you.
First, let’s focus on your family. You family is connected to each other through a bond that is thicker than blood. This bond is strong enough to forgive each other however many fights and arguments a family gets into. If things are not going smoothly between your family, there are ways to fix things, so don’t let your anger and hatred fester between each other.
First you’ll want to make sure that you don’t make promises that you cannot keep with your family. If you’ve decided that you want to improve your life, sit down with your family and talk about it. Your family’s input on your life is extremely important, especially if they can offer valuable information to you about your strengths and shortcomings.
Keeping your family involved, taking into consideration their recommendations and suggestions, and communicating with them openly are all key characteristics to healthy family relationships. Yet, this is always easier said than done, so it is important to work on these issues before they manifest into something else.
While there are very specific roles for parents and children in a family setting, there have to be some equal level ground rules set so that a family can function healthily. You’ll want to talk to your family about rules which you will have to follow and they will have to follow in order for your lives to improve.
These rules will help give order and balance to your lives and will develop a stronger family structure. This includes a level playing field for all members of the family. If your children have a curfew, so do you. This will help you keep more discipline in your life and will also reinforce positive habits in your kids. You want to be a good role model for your children, so make sure you can deliver.
Communicating with your family is another important factor to consider when trying to improve your life and relationships. Regardless of how busy you are in life, you always need to make time for your family.
Be honest with your family if your job is demanding and does not allow you to spend as much time as you’d like with them.
If you travel a lot, make sure you keep in touch with everyone through phone, e-mail, text messaging, etc. Take the time to make that extra effort with your family.
For instance, if there is something that you need to discuss with your children, don’t do it while having dinner. Dinner is supposed to be a time where you can spend time with each other, so talk to your child about the problem after dinner so that you can ensure that quality time together. And another way to ensure quality time is to have family meetings.
Make sure you and your family are always talking to each other because there is no better way to a healthy relationship than communication.
If you and your family are not getting along, you will need to do some work. To help improve a sour relationship between you and your family, you first need to be confident and believe in the fact that you have the power to mend all problems.
No problem is too big to fix, so with that mentality, you want to go into mending mode. It is always easier to say that you want to fix things then to not deliver, so make sure you believe in your will and ability to fix things.
You control the problem, so blaming things on others it not going to help you in any way, or help your relationship. The next thing you’ll want to do is let go of the problem that is causing the discomfort. Letting go of negative emotions and feelings well help you work towards a more harmonious relationship.
By not empowering your negative emotions you are letting the law of attraction work in your favor by letting go of the bad energy and emitting positive energy which will then, as you know, help you attract positive energy.
The process may take time, and will definitely take will power, but you have it within you to fix the relationships you care about and it is worth the effort and time it takes to fix them.
And in more or less the same way, you can find a significant other for yourself. The law of attraction works in the same way, but with more components in this scenario.
First when trying to find a potential partner, you’ll want to be very clear about the things you want in a partner and the things you don’t want in a partner. By being specific, you are sending a message to the universe about what you are attracted to and what you are not attracted to.
When talking about details, you do not need to specify hair color and eye color, but you will want to specify attractive traits, such as personality traits, that appeal to you. What will essentially happen is that your subconscious mind will hold on to these traits and then will be drawn to others who have those traits. So you will want to focus on positive traits as well as values and morals that are similar to yours.
The last step to finding the man or woman of your dreams is to believe that that specific person is out there.
If you have doubts or believe that you will be alone for the rest of your life, you’ll want to throw those ideas out of your head, because like the law of attraction states, if you are negative, negative energy will be drawn to you.
So fully believe that you are destined to a life of happiness and health with a person that you love, and that is what you will work towards and reach. Believe in the sanctity of love and the idea that there is someone on this earth who is meant to be with you. Only through your belief, will power, and effort will you find the person you want to be with.
At times it can be difficult to find what you are looking for, especially when looking for a partner, because you can get distracted by other people and by movies and TV shows. The images we see on TV and the stories we’ve been reading since we were children always portray a very simple story where at the end the man meets the woman and they live happily ever after.
Unfortunately, reality is not so easy, but it can be if you push past daydreaming about the perfect partner and start acting. If you are actively searching for a partner, you’ll want to be likable as well as confident. To push that personality and emotion is to embrace the law of attraction and to use it to your advantage.
Although things don’t always work we want them to, doesn’t mean that the law of attraction doesn’t work for us. It just means that we need to come up with a new strategy or we need to focus more on what we want. It is important to believe in yourself and believe in the idea of the law of attraction.