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HOW TO BUILD A LOVING RELATIONSHIP.

THE SCIENCE OF PARTNERFINDING.

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It has a specific purpose. It is a textbook that shows how couples can build a loving relationship. It's not philosophical. It is a practical manual. This isn't about proving any theories. It is intended for those who want to have a life partner. For those who want to find a partner first and then possibly philosophize.

It is for those who have not had the time, the money, or the opportunity to care about the philosophical backgrounds of life. It is for people who want a loving, harmonious, happy relationship. For those who want to use the results of psychological research. It is written for those who have no intention of finding out how the relevant researchers came to this conclusion.

You are expected to simply take note of the basic statements in this book. You are expected to assume that the statements are correct.

Like when an electrician tells you not to climb a pylon.

No explanation why not.

Anyone who does what is described in this book will undoubtedly find a partner who suits him. Because the science used in this book is an exact science. Failure is not possible if the principle is observed. If one adheres to the laws of nature described in this book, success is certain.

I would like to emphasize once again that the contents of this book do not come from me. I have applied these principles of success only to this one project, "How to establish a harmonious relationship".

But I can only give you the key to building a harmonious relationship if you are willing to do so.

Some of you may find this key in the first chapter. Others only in one of the last parts. However, if you have a readiness to learn index of at least one, then your success is almost certain.

But for those who want to study philosophical theories in order to get an explanation why this is the way it is. Here are some philosophical authorities.

You can study it if you want to know why it is the way it is.

These are the works of:

Rene´Descartes, where the famous phrase "I think I am" comes from.

Gottfried Willhelm Leibnitz, who said of himself: "When I woke up I had so many ideas that the day was not enough to write them down.

Baruch de Spinoza, who invented the word "disimprovements."

Waldo Emerson, whose work "Nature" ends with an appeal.

"So build your own world."

Georg Friedrich Wilhelm Hegel, the author of the statement: "The true is the whole".

and

Arthur Schopenhauer, who made the appeal: "Don't hurt anyone but help everyone as much as you can."

In writing I concentrated on writing it in easy to understand sentences. I want everyone to understand. I use short sentences. I forgo literary gimmicks.

The approach comes from the philosophers' conclusions. The instructions are thoroughly checked. She passes every practical test.

If you want to find out how I came up with it, then read the works of the philosophers mentioned above.

If you want to take advantage of her work, read this book and do what it says. (1)

Hugo Richard Vogel

1. The right to a life partner.

Whatever has been said to justify living alone, the fact remains that it is not possible for a person to lead a truly successful and accomplished life unless he has a life partner who suits him. For a heterosexual person this is a heterosexual person. For a homosexual person this is a homosexual life partner.

A person needs a partner at his side for his personal development with whom he can share his experiences.

No person can ascend to his highest spiritual development unless he has someone who motivates him and values his performance. For his personal development it is necessary to get feedback from a partner who sees the world from a different perspective than himself. No one can get that feedback if they live alone.

Every person develops his mind, his soul and his body further by receiving feedback from a life partner who basically perceives the world from a different perspective than himself. It follows that people need a partner to develop further. Therefore, the science of partner finding is the basis for all progress of mankind.

The purpose of all life is development. Everything that lives has the right to evolve as far as it can.

Everyone has the right to develop in his or her life as far as possible. This applies to all areas of life. Not only mental, but also spiritual or physical development is meant. The achievement of the greatest possible prosperity is also meant. This gives them the right to live with a partner.

In this book I am not talking about platonic relationships in which people live in different apartments. I don't mean relationships where a man lives in Hong Kong and his wife in Germany. I also mean non-mixed flat-sharing. No one should be satisfied with a relationship in which the interaction is superficial.

No one should agree to a relationship in which the two can only meet or talk on the phone at weekends. By cohabitation I mean sharing table, bed and chair. In cahoots.

The purpose of nature is progress and development of life. Everyone should have everything that improves their quality of life. To be satisfied with seeing one's partner only rarely is a mistake because it hampers the personal development of both.

Only the one who lives in a community is able to develop as far as possible. A person who does not have a life partner cannot achieve everything he would like to achieve because he lacks help in further development. Life has become so advanced and complicated that an intensive relationship between two people is necessary for constructive further development.

Of course, everyone wants to become everything he or she is capable of. The desire to achieve one's own goals is innate to human nature. We can't change wanting to be everything we can be. Success in life is to become what you want to be. You can only become what you want to be as you evolve. For this you need a competent partner who gives you feedback about what you are doing from a point of view of things you don't have.

The science of how to get a life partner is therefore the most essential of all knowledge for a person.

There is nothing wrong with the desire to have a suitable life partner. What I understand by fitting I have already revealed and I will show in the further course of the book. The desire for a suitable life partner is the desire for a richer, fuller life. This wish is appropriate and commendable. Always.

There are three reasons we live for. We live for the body, the mind and the soul. None of these three is more important or better than the others. All are equally valuable. None of the three can express themselves completely if one is completely neglected. It is not right to live only for the soul and therefore to neglect the mind or the body. It is also not right to live only for the mind and to neglect body and soul. Of course, there is no point in just living for the body and turning off the mind. Real life means the balanced expression of all three in balance.

Whatever someone may say. Nobody can be really happy if their body is not healthy. And the same goes for his mind and his soul.

If one of the three is denied expression, then unsatisfied desires arise. If one of the three is neglected, then certain tasks simply cannot be completed.

A person cannot live happily without good food, comfortable clothes, a nice home and freedom from constant drudgery. Peace and relaxation are also

necessary for his physical life. If two people share work, living space and income it is much easier to achieve this than in a single life in which one has to do everything on one's own and pay for the entire added value alone.

A person also cannot live happily without time for further training for travel and observation. He also needs opportunities for entertainment at a level that suits him. This is also easier to achieve in pairs than alone

To be mentally happy, it is also necessary to be able to surround oneself with beautiful things that one values. Finding beautiful things is also easier to achieve together with a life partner. Four eyes see more than two.

In order to live a complete soul, a person must be able to love. He who lives permanently alone denies love to his fellow human beings.

The highest happiness of man lies in giving good things to those whom he loves. Love finds its most natural expression in giving. He who gives spontaneously loves. The person who feels he has nothing to give stops at his development status. He's not evolving. But standstill is backlog in the stream of time. (2)

In giving material things a person finds full life for his body. In giving he develops his mind. In giving he unfolds his soul. It is therefore of the highest value for a person to have a soul mate. He can express his love to him by giving.

It is absolutely right that you should wish to have the best soul mate in the world. It is just as true that you should pay the greatest attention to science, to finding a partner. You have a duty to try as hard as you can. You can't do more service to others than to make the best of yourself. To do this, it is necessary that you find your soul mate.

When I write in this book about the right to partnership, I am not only referring to partnerships between men and women but also specifically to civil partnerships between two same-sex people who love each other.