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No one has to stay alone because an opportunity was taken away from him, because other people were faster and now live in fixed relationships. You may not be able to build a relationship with a certain person, but other possibilities are open to you.

Maybe it would be hard for you to become the soul partner of a certain movie actor, pop singer or soccer player. But there are numerous places and events where you can meet someone who suits you. Just do what you like. Then you are as natural in the place where there are people who also like it. For example, if you like to travel, then join a travel group. If you like dancing, take a dance class. If you like jogging

go, then go to the running group. If you are particularly interested in anything, then take the course at the adult education centre where people who are interested in this matter go. If you like cooking, then register for a cooking course. The possibilities are endless. Just do what you like and feel good about it.

It is absolutely true that if you don't know anything about the film business, but work as a worker on an assembly line, you have few chances to marry a certain film actor or actress.

But it's also true. That if you start acting in a certain way it will soon be possible for you to get to know other people.

You can now say that it is completely impossible for you to build a serious relationship, and that you have already been shipwrecked in several attempts in the past. But right now I am about to prove to you that it is possible to get a loving and understanding partner if you are willing to proceed in the certain way

At different times, the possibilities for people to get to know each other and communicate with each other change. At present, modern media with Internet and smartphone offer completely new possibilities to get to know a partner.

There is an abundance of opportunities for a person to take advantage of these new ways of communicating via email and SMS.

The countless people who are lonely in our society are not deprived of opportunities. As a group, they are where they are because they don't do things in a certain way. If they were organized as a group, the problem of isolation would be quickly solved. It would be possible to find together organized into partnerships. No one could stop this process of reorganisation of society. This group of people could organise the whole thing from their own ranks. In a few years, countless new friendships and strong partnerships could develop within this organization.

The group of the lonely could become the group of those who have the most stable relationships whenever they begin to do things in a particular way. The laws of nature are the same for them as for everyone else.

You have to learn to do things in the certain way that makes a lasting relationship possible. The individual is not held where he is by circumstances. Not the circumstances but the way we do things decides whether we get a life partner. This book shows how.

No one is held in solitude because there would be a lack of opportunities to get to know someone.

Every day offers new opportunities to get to know someone. There are billions of people on this planet.

No human being is therefore alone, because by nature there are too few potential life partners on this planet to choose from.

When individuals are lonely it is because they do not follow the certain way to do things.

It is the natural drive of life to strive for more life. It is the nature of intelligence to expand. It is the nature of consciousness to expand its limits and find fuller expression. Man needs a life partner to create more life. Nature has created human reproduction as an AND account, not as an OR account. It takes the signature of two people under the contract of life for the emergence of new life. The emergence of new life is the greatest miracle of this world. To be allowed to experience this miracle, man needs a partner.

To experience this miracle you don't need sex between heterosexual people. Reproduction by the cup method between a homosexually predisposed man and a heterosexually predisposed woman works just as well by artificial insemination. Nature does not need sex to create new life.

Nature is created to promote life. Their motive is the increase of life. For this purpose, everything that could possibly support life is generously provided. There can be no shortage. That would be a contradiction in terms. There can be no lack of opportunities to form a loving partnership.

You're not staying alone because there's a shortage of potential life partners. That's a fact. It is rather the case that nature itself reacts to the needs of people who think and act in a certain way.

I will show that in the following in this book.