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There is a science of partner finding, and it is an exact science like physics or mathematics. There are certain laws of nature that regulate how to find a suitable life partner. The laws of nature apply to every human being regardless of his or her predisposition. No matter if the person is heterosexual, homosexual or lesbian. As soon as these laws are recognized and applied by a person, he will find with mathematical certainty the life partner that is exactly right for him.

Living together with a partner is the result of acting in a certain way. Those who do things in a certain way find a life partner. Others who do not do things in this particular way remain alone however hard they try. You cannot find a suitable partner. It doesn't matter how hard they try. It just doesn't work. It does not matter which abilities or which appearance or which social status they have.

That the above statement is correct can be seen from the following facts.

Finding the right partner is not a matter of the environment. If this were the case, all people in a particular residential area would have found the ideal partner. All the inhabitants of a place would live in a happy relationship. On the other hand, all inhabitants of another place would live without partners. Or the inhabitants of one city would all be happily married, while the inhabitants of another city would all be divorced.

But everywhere we see people who live in partnerships and those who live separately in the same environment and often also within the same social class.

But if two people live in the same place and belong to the same social class and one finds the ideal partner and the other remains alone, it becomes clear that it does not depend on the place and social status.

Rather, finding a soul mate is the result of doing things in a certain way.

It is not the circumstances that determine our lives but our decisions, which we make consciously or unconsciously. (3)

The ability to do things in a certain way is the only thing that matters. It doesn't matter what abilities or talents a person has. People with a lot of talent can fail to find a partner while others who have little talent find a soul mate.

If we take a closer look at the people who have found a life partner, it turns out that they have average dexterity. They have no greater talents or abilities than other people. It is clear that they have not found a partner because they have special talents or abilities. They have no talents that other people don't have. They find a partner because they do things intentionally or accidentally in a certain way.

Living with a loved one is not the result of someone staying at home and caring only and exclusively for that person. Many people who cling to their partner lose it, while others who have numerous acquaintances and friendships with whom they go out keep their partner.

Also, nobody keeps the ideal partner because he creates things that others can't. Because two people working in the same field often do almost the same things. Nevertheless, one celebrates a golden wedding and the other gets divorced.

So I come to the statement that finding a life partner is the result of doing things in the definite way.

But if finding a life partner is the result of doing things in a certain way, and if the same causes always bring the same results, then every man and every woman can find the ideal life partner in this way. The topic of partner finding becomes tangible within the field of exact science.

The question is, of course, whether this particular way may be so difficult that few can follow it. That can't be true. As we've seen. Talented people find a partner and fools find a partner. Intellectually great people find a partner and stupid people find a partner. Physically strong people find a partner and weak people get a life partner.

A certain degree of ability to think must naturally exist. But as far as his natural abilities are concerned, anyone who has enough sense to read and understand this book can undoubtedly find a partner.

We realize once again that it is not a matter of the environment. The location counts for something. If you want to meet someone, you have to go where people are.

Necessarily someone who wants to find a life partner has to deal with people and be there where there are people he wants to get in contact with. And if these people are willing to deal with us the way we want them to. But that's all there is to it's surroundings.

If anyone else in the place where you live can find a life partner, so can you.

I would like to repeat once again, because this point is important. It is not a question of what income someone has or what profession they pursue that influences whether or not they find a partner. People with any income and any profession can find a partner. They can be direct door neighbours. One finds the love of his life and the other remains alone for a lifetime.

It is true that the easiest way to find a suitable partner is in a place and in an activity you like. But people come together in any place.

You will also find the easiest way to find a partner in a place where people speak your language and

Know your cultural habits. But apart from these general restrictions your partner finding is not dependent on what you do and who you are. Your success in finding a partner depends more on how quickly you learn how to do things in a certain way.

If you are now living in an environment where others have already been able to find their soul mate while you are still alone, it is because you are not doing things in the same way as they do the other people.

No one is prevented from finding a suitable life partner because there are not enough people who are also looking for a life partner. It is true that someone who has been a close friend for a long time has an easier relationship with someone than someone who has no close relationship with someone. But someone who already has a close friendship with a loved one has already found a life partner and no longer needs to think about how to find a partner.

No matter how lonely you may be, when you start doing things in a certain way you start to build a relationship and get a friendship. To get a friendship is part of the success that follows without exception the doing of things in a certain way.

You may be the loneliest person on the continent and you may not have a single person near you. You may not have acquaintances or friendships, but when you start doing things in a certain way you must unfailingly begin to find a life partnership. Same causes must lead to same results. If there is no one where you are, then you can go where someone is. The important thing is that in the place where you are right now you start doing things in the certain way that causes success.