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In The Constellation Approach, as in all Family Constellation practices, it is imperative to Suspend Moral Judgment—to pause, postpone, or interrupt our usual way of perceiving. Morals derive from what our beliefs, society, and culture value as “good” or “honorable.” Yet the act of deciding whether someone or something is good or bad, right or wrong, limits how far we can explore the realms of consciousness and the Soul because judgments act as a barrier to a greater perception of reality. To Suspend Moral Judgment is to open to larger levels of awareness and understanding. Each of us has had an experience of failure, of being hurt or wronged in the past. Can you think of a time later in life, when that pain or failure turned out to have been a blessing? When we Suspend Moral Judgement in a Constellation, we cultivate the ability to recognize the blessings that have emerged in our lives in the aftermath of hurtful or traumatic events.

Exploring our Family Lineage without judgment provides the opportunity to uncover secrets and investigate the lost and unexplained, what we previously knew as simply good or bad. These are the very things that bind us together as a family. When we look with open eyes, mind, and heart—Suspending our Moral Judgment—we are capable of letting go of what no longer serves our personal growth. Most importantly, we gather strength from a more meaningful and conscious connection to our Family Lineage. This strength feeds the Soul’s development. The psychic energy we previously used to distance ourselves from our family is re-channeled into more productive efforts towards reconciliation and wholeness. This is the healing power and medicine of Suspending Moral Judgment.