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The third practice that’s central to TCA: acknowledge, accept, and agree. These three simple words are at the very foundation of the Constellation Approach and used to shift perception and guide you through the process.

To acknowledge is associated with the Mental Level of Consciousness, the mind, the third eye, and crown chakra. It’s the first phase of a Constellation.

I acknowledge you as my father.

You begin with a simple statement of truth: This person is my father. No one can have two biological fathers. To acknowledge a fact aloud assists you in moving to the Emotional Level of Consciousness.

To accept is more difficult than to acknowledge because accepting brings up the duality of choice. Accepting is associated with feelings, emotions, the heart chakra. This is the second phase of a Constellation.

I accept you as my mother.

When we accept, we wrestle with all the complicated and conflicted feelings that come with the acceptance process. We have to digest both the difficult and the pleasant aspects of our relationship with the other.

As Eckhart Tolle has written, “Acceptance looks like a passive state, but in reality it brings something entirely new into the world. That peace, a subtle energy vibration, is consciousness.”

To agree is all-inclusive. It leaves nothing out. Agreeing is associated with the deepest level of our consciousness, our Soul. To agree is the final phase of a Constellation and can be felt at all levels of our being, through the entire auric field, to the essence of our core.

I agree to all that has happened between us in this lifetime.

This simple word can change everything in our perspective on life, relationships, and any number of far-reaching experiences we have faced. When we can fully agree to what has transpired in our Family Lineage, we are far more likely to move beyond our emotional attachments to the past, into the fullness of our own goodness and Divinity.