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The second practice we use in TCA, called Words of Empowerment, refers to particular words or sentences spoken aloud in a focused, succinct manner by the Client or Representatives to one another during a Constellation. These are also described as “Statements of Empowerment” or “Solution Sentences” by Family Constellation facilitators. Words of Empowerment usually begin with “I” or “You” to establish self-responsibility or direct communication. A child might say to her mother, “You are the right mother for me.” A father might say to his child, “I will take care of this; you are free to go.” Or, to someone who has died and is terribly missed, “I will hold a place for you in my heart.”

Such affirmations hold enormous energy for healing our deep emotional pain. When words are spoken with genuine respect and truth, a resonance or vibration is felt within all Representatives as well as the larger group. Words of Empowerment may be said to one or more Representatives. When the right Words of Empowerment are spoken there is a shift in emotion, often resulting in tears, as the Client’s heart opens.