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Task 3: Recognize that strengths are easier to see
ОглавлениеIt’s difficult to observe what your attention focuses on, especially when you’re only starting out with the Enneagram. Recognizing your strengths is much easier. The strengths of the individual Enneagram types are no accident. They originate from the focus of a type’s attention and their energy. The respective type considers these goals important and works on them. Accordingly, strengths in this area develop seemingly on their own. So the task for the self-observation is to read the nine strength descriptions in Table 4-2 and ask yourself these questions:
Is there one or more box in which you (strongly) recognize yourself?
Are there boxes in which you don’t recognize yourself and can exclude from the start?
TABLE 4-2: Do You Recognize Your Strengths?
Strong, forceful, determined, assertive, protective of others, virtuous, truthful, clear, to the point, firm | Openhanded and eager to help, generous, romantic, sensitive, appreciative, supportive, energetic, lively, expressive, obliging, tenacious | Educated, intellectually curious, aware, deliberative, calm in the face of crisis, respectful, “live and let live,” reliable, ascetic, appreciates the simpler things, honors confidentiality |
Honorable, careful, responsible, industrious, idealistic, independent, dedicated, makes an effort, does the right thing, holds high standards | Sensitive, empathetic, intense, passionate, idealistic, has a unique point of view, appreciates uniqueness, honors creative possibilities | Positive, inventive, imaginative, energetic, optimistic, inspiring, enthusiastic, loves life, recognizes intriguing possibilities |
Thoughtful, warm, loyal, intuitive, sensitive, perceptive, honorable, has a good sense of humor, trusting of intimates | Quiet, adaptive, supportive, predictable, reliable, sensitive, stable, receptive, seldom judgmental, looks out for others | Efficient, goal- and solution-oriented, enthusiastic, ambitious, encouraging, practical, competent, holds strong leadership qualities |