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Growing up in a conservative, Mormon, military home in San Antonio, Texas, some would say the deck was stacked against me. I knew I was gay from around six years old and was certain that meant I was going to hell. If anyone ever found out, I’d be shunned by my peers and bring great shame to my family. In a massive turn of luck, my mom fell in love with an Army soldier who had orders to ship out to California. We packed up our yellow Malibu Classic and headed West. It was there I first heard the true story of Harvey Milk, an openly gay leader who won at the ballot box by extinguishing fear with hope. Hearing his story literally saved my life.

As a filmmaker working behind the scenes in Hollywood, I could be openly gay and mostly avoid homophobia. So when my screenplay for Milk won the Academy Award, I followed my forefathers’ and foremothers’ examples and shared my own story on the Oscar’s massive stage in hopes of sending yet another message of hope to LGBTQ viewers who had been shunned, marginalized, turned out by their families, or condemned by their churches. I ended my speech that night with a wish of my own—that perhaps one day I’d fall in love and get married, too. After half a decade of work as an activist and organizer fighting for marriage equality, I am now engaged to a professional athlete with even greater passion and discipline (not to mention abs) than I will ever have, and we live happily in London together today. My dream has come true. But even with marriage equality won in the US, our larger, global dreams of LGBTQ equality for all are still far from realized.

For too long our stories have been robbed from us, buried in fear and shame. Until recently, we would have been labeled mentally ill or criminal for even claiming our stories as our own. In many countries that is still the case. So diving back into an excavation of our long buried LGBTQ history with ABC’s miniseries, When We Rise, I gathered a group of diverse artists to help tell more of our stories in an even more inclusive fashion. But even this effort only scratches the surface. Far more light must be shed on who we are and where we come from. It is our combined histories, efforts, and stories that help define us as a people, pull us out of isolation, bring us together in community, and inspire us to rise up by reminding us that we have risen before, fought back before, faced backlash before, and won. Sharing our stories and our histories is not an exercise in nostalgia. Our history laid manifest is the foundation of our power.

Tom Daley, British Olympic diver and his fiancé, Dustin Lance Black, in London, UK

This book, Pride & Joy: LGBTQ Artists, Icons and Everyday Heroes, by longtime LGBTQ activist Kathleen Archambeau, empowers queer youth to do more than survive, but to thrive, whatever the challenges, whatever the losses, whatever the risks, wherever you find yourself. It encourages LGBTQ citizens of the world to live open, happy, fulfilling, strong and successful lives, and utilizes the power of true stories to demonstrate that a brighter, freer future is possible even in what feel like impossible circumstances. The stories told in this book are not simply reflections. Combined and shared, they have the power to help us recognize and fortify our own tremendous strength.