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The Dance of Intimacy takes two partners. Even when you are Quarry you must remember the steps. Sadly, many potential relationships never get off the ground because, accidentally, the Quarry repels the Hunter with his or her body language.

Unlike deer or bear hunters, human Hunters and Huntresses suffer from a malady. It’s called insecurity or shyness. When a Hunter or Huntress levels sights at you, you must show you are willing Quarry and be a good follower in the Dance of Intimacy.

I was once at a party with a girlfriend, Diana. An attractive man smiled at Diana, and she looked away. She confided to me, ‘That good-looking guy over there smiled at me.’

‘Great,’ I said. ‘Smile back.’

Soon after, the fellow was standing near us. I don’t know whether it was shyness or a desire to play it cool, but instead of turning towards him and smiling Diana just kept on chatting with me. A few minutes later we saw the good-looking stranger in a warm tête-à-tête with another woman. Diana was crushed. She said to me, ‘Oh, I guess he saw me up close and decided not to talk to me.’

‘No, Diana,’ I said, wanting to shake her. ‘You just didn’t respond to his overtures.’ She missed step one in the basic dance of lovers – turning towards him to show receptivity.

Missed opportunities like this one are happening round the clock, round the globe. Often willing Quarry crying to be captured becomes the one that got away.