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As men we have this interesting mix of desires in juxtaposition with cultural influences of what a man should be and how a marriage should operate. My own view has been altered quite a bit on what a marriage can be versus what society says it should be, namely, having my wife lead the marriage. These alterations are more in line with my thoughts, feelings and desires in what I want from a marriage and support my strong desire to serve my wife. I find that these alterations when implemented in a loving manner create happiness for both partners and offer opportunities for us to expand our relationship to greater heights. This expansion covers all phases of the marriage, including intimacy, communication, self-care, home care, parenting, etc.

The reason I wrote this the guide is that I cannot speak for women. They are different than men. I can only speak for me and my experience in creating a wife led marriage in my own life. I also realize that I am not alone, a lot of men like me have submissive tendencies and the desire to serve their wives. My goal is that this guide will aide you in your journey towards what you want to create in your own relationship.

My research on this topic has been based on absorbing other books, blogs, podcasts on the subject of female led relationships as well as my own personal discoveries about myself in confronting my desires to serve my wife. This book offers a different voice and one that digs a little deeper into the mental framework one must adopt in a wife led marriage. As a mental toughness consultant and leadership trainer, I have studied extensively the process of changing one’s behavior. This book touches upon the mental awareness that can be part of making a change to one’s marital relationship.

This book is intended as a supplemental guide for marital work based on the author’s own experiences specific to a wife led marriage. This book makes no guarantees whether this will work for you and your situation. Any marital or relationship therapy needed should be sought by a certified practitioner.

With all that being said, I hope you enjoy The Wife Led Marriage and find it useful in your own journey. Best of luck.