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I heard this story once of a guy who was interested in having a threesome with his wife meaning him, his wife and another woman. He sits his wife down and takes her through the idea. She agrees to try it, and to her surprise, he has another woman waiting in the next room to get started. I suggest not utilizing this approach. Get this message clear, this will take time to blossom especially if you are in a more traditional marriage. And that is perfectly fine. O-100 mph rarely works in these types of situations.

This begs the question for a husband who wants to introduce this to his wife; how do you go about it? I am going to discuss options that are available to try, learn and implement. A lot of this comes down to discipline, desire, courage and trust.

I said earlier that desire plays a strong part in implementing a wife led marriage. That is true. First and foremost, you need to want this. You need to have a desire to have this type of relationship. I find the best way to do these types of things are through use of the fundamental rules for success.

Implementing a wife led marriage is similar to a personal growth program because it is not a light switch that you can just turn on. Maybe for a few, it will work that way. For the rest of us, it is a process with turns and obstacles, mostly internal. Robin Sharma, a personal mastery teacher, says “all change is hard at first, messy in the middle and beautiful at the end”. For many of us, this will be the mantra in implementing a wife led marriage in your life.

Is it worth it? If you dream of having your wife be free and assertive in both the bedroom and the home then yes, absolutely, this is for you. Happy wife, happy life.