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Chapter 2: How To Behave

HOW TO BEHAVE

Why Am I Behaving This Way?

People are always saying things like "why is this happening to me?" its because of your behavior you have behaved in a way that has made this occur in your life. You have said or did something that has cause this situation to take place this is why you find yourself in this circumstance. Whether it was instigated by yourself or by others and you took part and/or you were in the wrong place at the wrong time. Our behavior begins by what we think and what we do so if we are thinking of revenge then if your personality type is a vindictive and threatening type you will behave by going to do something such as maybe hurt someone physically. And then later on you may either regret it or you'll feel guilty and live with the burden you behave that way because you are lacking something you're not able to deal with certain things. You hide, run, lie, deny and worry getting stressed but how to make things better is to change your behavior going about things in a different way.

Slow down...be patient...step by step...day by day...changing your behavior is a learning curve we all learn by our mistakes some people tend to repeat the same mistakes over and over. You need to break out of that repetitive pattern which leads you back to that same crap situation. If you don't change and recognize that you have a problem its only going to get worse. Your behavior is the reason why you might not be as successful as you want to be, maybe this is why your relationships fail or it be for some other reason. If its a person that is causing you to behave that way stay away from them, leave them, ignore them, get on with it and move on with your life. Ifs its a place then stay away from it, walk the other way and stop all communication with them.

Example One: The Criminal

Let's say you're a criminal right and you have committed a serious crime you've been living with this for so long.

When this took place instead of acting on impulse and doing it you should have stepped back and stopped to think about it more not behaving that way saying to yourself how is this going to affect the rest of my life?

So your bad thought which made you react in a negative way causing your behavior to go out and do the wrong thing.

Example Two: The Detective

Let's say you're a Detective and you are having difficulty gathering intelligence and evidence to catch a killer right someones planted in your mind a thought right and they hand you over something so your thought which was the wrong thought leads you to react in a way making you behave in a way which leads you to a dead end you because of your behavior and thoughts in your mind and the way you reacted has now let the victim rot away like a skeleton and the killer has gotten away with murder. Because you behaved in a way which was caused by a thought the way you were thinking. So what you need to do is to firstly evaluate the whole scenario before jumping to conclusions to allow you to behave in a manner which will get you the intelligence, the correct information and evidence to make an arrest.

The both of you are running around in circles the detective is flashing badges at people reading emails getting confused and the bad guy is in hiding trying to fish for information you

So my point is this is happening to you because of the way you behaved in the first place this is why this crap is happening in your life.

Example Three: The Man/The Woman

Let's say you cheated on someone or someone cheated on you let's say you love your wife but your not totally happy right so you go and have an affair you sneak around and later on she finds out or something happens and she is angry and upset and it causes problems. So something in your mind a thought which made you react in a way which caused you to behave that way maybe you weren't totally satisfied in the marriage something missing or other so instead of making you do those things behaving that way sit down with your wife/partner/girlfriend and TALK TALK TALK TALK COMPROMISE and then kiss and make-up.

So my point being why do I go sleeping around all the time what's wrong with me? Your behavior made you this way so change your thinking and behave in a way that won't bring crap into your lives.

The way we behave might lead us down a path of chaos and destruction possibly causing harm to us and/or making us lose things we worked so hard for. It could change us and turn us into someone we don't really want to be we behave in ways because of the following:

1 We might be bored and go out and do something.

2 We could be getting forced to do something and aren't in control of the situation.

3 We are frustrated because we are not getting what we want so we could go out and do something stupid.

THINK BETTER.

REACT BETTER.

BEHAVE IN A BETTER WAY.

CHANGE FOR THE BETTER.

BE YOU. BE SMARTER. BE KIND.