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Life sure can be hard at times can't it? I bet you you all have been going through some crazy times in your life right? Ups and downs, break ups, make ups, divorce, separation, yelling, fighting, business change, changing jobs, meeting new people date after date but still no success. Making money, losing money, gambling money, counting every penny trying to save money, spending money, stress, feeling tired, lonely, bored, sad, depressed, angry, annoyed and frustrated. Things getting worse? or better? struggling? no pleasure? feeling upset? that's life the world we live in us human beings sure do have some interesting, sometimes hard, some days good, other times bad and sad times. But we try deal with it we try cope with it we try pray that things change faith or no faith? knocking on doors? making calls? sending texts, email after email, sending letters and trying to get that piece of information, that message that makes us feel good that reply that gives us the answer that appointment that give us the best satisfying pleasure which makes us feel so good. Still trying to find that serial killer? waiting to get that business loan? I know the cash flow not going well? staff are lazy or not intelligent yeah we get a lot of things in life don't we. Win some lose some try some and give some away getting sick or getting better or maybe getting worse life is hard some days seems easy but people have problems everywhere I've worked or socialized or events I went to etc. people have problems and they like to turn to me what can I do but listen right? I listen you know using my compassionate heart that I have still no happy with the way you look? sick and tired of your hairstyle or trying to fit into your jeans? or waiting for payday to go buy something its funny how the human mind does think the thoughts that go into our head and mind will she like me? will she go out with me? will she sleep with me? over and over these thoughts go through our head. The universe has plenty for everyone but sometimes people do the wrong things and turn into the wrong direction which makes them fail and things don't go as they planned they have to deal with failure and rejection and then disappointment they put into so much time, energy and money into trying to be that successful and happy and healthy person. So what is the best thing to invest in?

YOU...you are GOLD and your life is precious your life is very important and you need to take care of that your mind, body, spirit and well-being make yourself feel good. You just need someone out there to care, give you support, encourage you and inspire you that person to just give you that push to move forward in a POSITIVE way taking along with you courage, inner strength, determination and your mind and heart. Your situations don't have to be so bad things can change you can change your issues and problems can be sorted out. Look after yourself invest in something that will and can actually help don't keep trying your luck on gambling because their will be days you will lose don't keep denying that you have a problem re addiction deal with it before it gets worse. Don't be hard on yourselves but also don't give up if you're feeling down put on some inspiring music and dance or go sit by the beach and enjoy the people and serenity of listening to the ocean breeze try yoga or go for a walk in nature a park or somewhere that you like a place where you feel good. Look in the mirror and be happy with you don't beat yourselves up when things go wrong be grateful, appreciative and thankful for what you have a home, food, clothing, business, job and the ability to see, hear, walk, talk etc. as human beings we're always complaining or worrying but there's a time to stop and take a big breathe in and inhale and then exhale and try manage your problems, relationships and issues that seem to be worrying you. As a qualified therapist who studied counseling I find that people seem to let a past experience or trauma or failure/rejection or tragedy stress them out it drives them insane and makes them feel miserable. I feel sorry for these people they cry, sometimes I heard and saw such anger people want to throw things and talk about revenge how they are going to get back at those ex boyfriend/girlfriend etc. its so sad but forget the hurts and upsets look after you and go learn, grow, overcome obstacles and find a solution which can take you to a better mental, physical and spiritual state where you can move forward in your life. Sometimes we act in a way that’s not really who we are not our personality there are times people cannot deal with issues or too scared so they become and react in a different way. Some people are weak and cry others throw tantrums and others turn violent they lie or deny or hide or they make up stories.

If you're asking yourself questions such as:

For the wife:

Is he cheating on me? Should I hire a private investigator? Should I confront him?

For the husband:

Why is she always nagging and moody I pay for everything? Can't she wear sexy lingerie should I ask her?

For the criminal:

What if I get caught? what should I do? oh god what if the police know I did it and they got evidence? where can I go? Is the homicide squad going to knock on the door soon? oh god help me? someone help me? HELP THEY GONNA CATCH ME? for you people though if you people did bad things well its not for me to say what to do showing remorse might help maybe it won't saying sorry might help or maybe it won't your kind your actions/behavior has put you in this so people this is your own fault don't blame others. You chose to do those things or maybe you were forced? But its not for me to say this is your life sure people can forgive but what if others can't ? Are you ready to deal with that? maybe change for the better? Do right not wrong or good not bad.

What got me into that situation?

Why did I decide to do that?

Who made the decision to do that? YOU? ITS YOUR FAULT.

In life we all have FREE WILL your mind made that decision so don’t go around blaming others.

For the student:

What if I fail? What if I don't get a job after? Am I wasting my time?

For the sick:

This medication isn't working what can I try?

For the poor:

How can I get money?

For the rich:

What should I invest in a escort or mistress? or maybe invest into something that's going to make my business get more profit where can I go?

For the worker:

Oh god another bill when is this going to end help me someone...I'm working seven days a week feeding two kids and supporting a stay at home mom who just wants to have babies. No sex when I want it but she wants babies more and more babies I'm going to be broke. What can I do?

For the sad:

This is so depressing when is some handsome man going to ask me out what can I do to get that?

For the person who struggles financially:

More loss I just keep losing I shouldn't have spent my recent paycheck at the casino I'm doomed what can I do?

For the entertainer:

Am I too fat? Should I go on diet? Exercise more?

For the actor:

So many auditions but still no luck what's going on? How can I get this? Who can I turn to?

For the artist:

Why isn't people buying my paintings? I spend so many hours at the exhibitions and art gallery spent four years at university studying art how come I'm not successful. What can I do? How am I gonna support myself? Who can I turn to?

For the lawyer:

Damn it I lost another murder trial...I got to stop this pro Bono crap...my wife is going to leave me.

For the police officer/detective/investigator:

Here I am on duty late at night oh no its my wife’s birthday let me check my cell phone oh bumper she just sent a text message oops I missed her call. I got to get out of this UNSOLVED CRIMES department its ruining my life. My wife is going to be angry shes gonna yell at me. I should have caught that serial killer twenty years ago how stupid of me I let the victim rot away like a skeleton I'm a dickhead. I should have listened to that girl at the police station I'm stupid.

For the doctor:

Oh god the operation failed the patient got worse they are going to take me to court I'm gonna be sued damn it why is this happening to me? I take care of the sick how is this happening?

For the CEO:

Oh no I shouldn't of stolen from the company oh gosh I sent the money through to the Cayman Islands bank account damn it they're gonna trace it back to me. Peter said all the executives know I'm in trouble maybe I can sneak in tonight and put the money back? but how the hell am I gonna get past security? Whose gonna help me with situations like this?

For the international businessman:

Should I invest into the business in Dubai United Arab Emirates or should i go to Beijing China? Should I sell the stocks and put it into a big long term deposit or managed funds accounts? These financial planners weren't helpful where can I get help?

For the lonely:

Why won't anyone friend me online this is so unfair someone out there like me send me a message or emoji come on you stupid computer make someone like me. Why isn't people being my friend? what can I do?

For the boyfriend:

Wow this strip club is awesome look at all these babes shaking their booty look at that one her photos are online she hot I like her shes into fashion look at that one she's in a pretty dress. Those sexy girls wearing those high shoes moving around bump in' and grinding up and down and all around how am I gonna break up with my girlfriend. This is the life I'm loving it woo hoo. But that babe over there by the boats near the water she's sucking and licking that lobster shes looking so fine. Check her out strutting her stuff around the marina I need to get her how am I gonna do that?

Begin with getting a pen and a piece of paper and start by writing make two columns on the left side write what's the problems and on the right write what I can do to fix and change that keep going use your own brain/intelligence. Instead of sitting there feeling sorry for yourself and lashing out at others find your solution to deal with things.