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TABLE OF CONTENTS

Preface

Acknowledgments

Introduction

Part One: The Avenue to Addiction

Chapter 1: The Role of Family of Origin

Boundaries

Attachment

Chapter 2: Abuse

Sexual Abuse

Physical Abuse

Psychological Abuse

Religious Abuse

Chapter 3: Addiction and the Brain

Chapter 4: Other Risk Factors

The Genetic Component

Psychological Risk Factors

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)

Mood Disorders

Narcissism

Narcissistic and Other Personality Disorders

Chapter 5: The Role of Pornography

A Further Note on Pornography

Chapter 6: The Progression of Sex Addiction

Masturbation

Same Sex Behaviors

Sexual Offending

Denial and Self-Deception

Minimization

Terminal Uniqueness

Procrastination

Sex Addiction’s Relationship to Other Forms of Addiction

Chapter 7: General Questions about Sex Addiction

Chapter 8: Questions about Sex Addiction from Partners

Chapter 9: Is There Any Hope?

Part Two: The Road to Recovery

Chapter 10: Recovery Basics

Things to Start

Things to Stop

Things to Change

The Free Stuff Is Priceless

Chapter 11: General Questions about Recovery

Part Three: The Highway to Healing—The Partner’s Journey

Chapter 12: Recovery Basics for Partners

It’s Not Your Fault!

Twelve-Step Meetings for Partners

Other Support Groups

Other Possible Options

Starting Your Own Recovery Journey

Chapter 13: Why Did He Do It?

Chapter 14: Whom Do I Tell?

Chapter 15: Moving Forward

Educate Yourself about Sex Addiction

Do Your Own Healing and Recovery Work

Detach. Detach. Detach.

Determine What You Need If You Are Going to Stay

Develop a Plan for Asking for the Recovery Work You Need from Your Husband

Follow Through and Have That Conversation

Step Back and Watch and Wait for a Predetermined Length of Time

Signs He’s Working to Gain Freedom and True Change

Chapter 16: Questions about Recovery from Partners

Chapter 17: Coping with Trauma

Chapter 18: Legal and Financial Protection for Partners

Part Four: The Path to Restoring Relationships

Chapter 19: Questions about Restoring Relationships

Chapter 20: Disclosure: Why? How? When?

Why?

How?

When?

Post-Disclosure

Chapter 21: Questions about Disclosure

Chapter 22: Questions about Polygraph Exams

Chapter 23: Rebuilding Intimacy

Making Amends

Emotional Intimacy

Spiritual Intimacy

Sexual Intimacy

Chapter 24: Healthy Sexuality

Guy Talk

For Partners

Restarting Your Sexual Relationship

Touch and Oxytocin

Foreplay

Questions about Healthy Sexuality

Part Five: Detour into Relapse

Chapter 25: General Questions about Slips and Relapse

Chapter 26: Recovery from Slips and Relapses

Chapter 27: Preventing Relapse

Additional Relapse Prevention Tools

Adjust Your Expectations

Mindfulness in Relapse Prevention

Part Six: The Journey Home

Success Stories

Kangaroos and Emus

Appendix A: Finding Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) and Answers at a Glance

Appendix B: Recovery Programs at Hope & Freedom Counseling Services

Appendix C: Recovery Programs and Resources at a Circle of Joy

Appendix D: Additional Sex Addiction Resources

Twelve-Step Programs for Sex Addicts

Twelve-Step Programs for Partners of Sex Addicts

Twelve-Step Programs for Couples

Christian-Based Twelve-Step Meetings

Websites to Locate Therapists That Specialize in Sex Addiction

Intensive Outpatient Sex Addiction Treatment Programs

Inpatient Sex Addiction Treatment Centers

Christian-Based Workshops

Sex Addiction Recovery-Related Websites

Other Web-Based Resources

Inspirational Audio Messages for Sex Addiction Recovery

Twelve-Step Fellowships for Other Forms of Addiction/Compulsive Behaviors

The Twelve Steps of Sex Addicts Anonymous

Real Hope, True Freedom

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